A Journey in Books and Learning

About me

Hello! I’m Pulane Phoka, a book lover and the author of Ephemeral Beginnings, currently pursuing a degree in Computer Science and Mathematics. While my academic journey sharpens my analytical skills, it’s my passion for reading that truly fuels me. Books are my escape, my guide, and my source of inspiration. Through this blog, I share how literature and personal growth intertwine to inspire transformation. Join me as we explore the profound impact of stories on our lives and embark on a journey of self-discovery together!

  • Happy 100th Birthday, Puly!

    Write a letter to your 100-year-old self. How are you, ma’am? How does it feel to be back home after all those years abroad? Do you still have friends? And what about kids,where are they, and are they thriving? Most importantly… are you happy? I am so thrilled to see that you listened to yourself…

  • Finally, She Graduated!

    Pitch me aii,sis here got her first degree this past year: a Bachelor’s degree in General Science! And trust me, this is all on God,I am forever grateful!🙏 That money I wasn’t sure would come? My parents made sure I had everything, I mean everythinggg!! Thanks a bunch🧡 But I really don’t know why, that…

  • It Takes Time, But You Will Be Fine

    A follow-up to Ephemeral Beginnings There was a time I couldn’t go a full day without thinking about him. His voice, his presence, the “what ifs” — they followed me like shadows. I was grieving not just the relationship, but the version of myself I was with him… the hope, the dreams, the softness I…

  • I’m Finally Graduating 🎓

    I finally passed. I’m graduating. Just typing that makes me emotional. This journey hasn’t been easy — I’ve cried, doubted myself, failed, tried again… and now here I am. Grateful.So deeply grateful. But let’s be real — graduation season is stressful! The outfits, the planning, the money I don’t have? Yoh. 😭Still, it’s the kind…

  • The Power of Disconnecting

    My 4-Day Digital Detox Journey I decided to go offline for four days. No WhatsApp. No social media. No checking in to see what everyone else was doing. I didn’t do it because I was overwhelmed or frustrated — I did it to prove something to myself. I wanted to know, deep down, that I…

  • The Kind of Friend I Want to Grow With

    What quality do you value most in a friend? Friendship is one of life’s most sacred gifts—quietly powerful, deeply influential, and often a reflection of how we show up for ourselves. Over the years, I’ve come to realize that it’s not the number of friends we have that matters, but the quality of those relationships.…

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