Inspiration, Spiritual

Finding peace in change

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

When your life is a roller coaster of changes and all the emotions that come with that you can still find peace.

Don’t try to focus on each day as a time because that may be to much at times. You need to focus in the present moment and not even think a second further than that. You need to move and stay busy until you are safe to take a moment to stay with your feelings. But again don’t do a very big analysis of events just ask yourself: “What do I need now to feel better?” That is all. And whatever answer your body will give you, do that. And moment by moment all it will pass and you will change for the better without stressing.

Life is change. So you can’t stop changing and evolving even you want it or not. At least make the changes in a manner that you will feel as well as you can. Do what you can for yourself every day. Give yourself the care you want from others and you will be more than fine. If you have self-love you have everything you need!

See you in my next post and God bless!

Inspiration

Spiritual and childfree by choice

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

Life has a way of teaching you all that you need to know, even when you refuse to learn it. Something always happens in life that makes you understand yourself more and reconsider every big decision you have ever took. And that it is not a wrong thing to do, most of the times.

I was recently in a relationship and his dream was to have a family with children. As I thought we have true love, I started to explore this dream of his, although I choose to not have kids many years ago. I went to a doctor to see if I am able to make healthy babies as I am over 40. And I am very healthy and all the doctors I spoke with, said I can have children if I want, but to make them soon.

As I was in this relationship and considering to maybe have children, I thought I got pregnant. But as I waited for the test to show me the result I was hoping to be negative. Because I do not want to have children. It is okay to explore someone else’s dream and make sure you did not change your mind about yours. But in the end it is good to do the right thing for you, and not to loose yourself in someone else’s.

As a woman when I asked myself if I want children a long time ago, I had to consider if I want a child so bad that I am willing to raise it alone. A lot of relationship do not work and most of the times the children stay with the woman. So stay true to your desires and don’t do anything that you are not ready to do.

PS: I was not pregnant. And also the relationship did not last. But I got to explore this decision of having children and I know now clearer that ever that being childfree it is the right thing for me.

See you in my next post and God bless!

Spiritual

Another cure for worrying

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I found my cure for worrying. It is a simple and accessible cure that I will share with you next.

As a empath I am prone to overthinking especially if I have on me the negative energies of other people. If I do not purify of the negative energies of the people I met in that day I tend to have their worries too. Their fears and worries adds up with my own and sometimes it is hard to sleep at night.

Empaths need to have a very strict purifying routine for their own well-being. And on the long term that is the best cure for most of the problems that are not their own but only gathered from the people they meet daily. I have an older post here with a purifying prayer to archangel Michael if you want to check it out.

But last night when I woke up worrying about something not important but for which I would loose sleep for, I found another cure for my worrying. I wanted to go back to sleep as quickly as I could. So as I notice that I was worrying about something that did not work in my life, I started to give thanks for all the good things that I have working for me. And as I was giving thanks and being grateful a peace come over me and I sleep very well until late in the morning. It is simple to counteract worries with gratitude but maybe we don’t think that would always work so well. Give it a try next time you worry for nothing and tell me if gratitude helps you too.

I see you in my next post, please subscribe and not missed it. God bless!

Spiritual

Manifesting true love

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

Be careful when you manifest something. Ask for everything you want and don’t let anything out. As I said in an older post, this year is very powerful for change. You can change anything you like in your life, anything.

And if you align to the universal energy you can get anything that you think you deserve, even true love. I got that for the first time in my life a few weeks ago. I wanted to experience it and I did. But I forgot to ask the Universe for it to last my entire lifetime and it didn’t. The way everything happened showed me that I truely can ask the Universe anything I want and I would get it very shortly after that.

I was sad that it did not last my entire life, not even as a longer relationship. But as a friend pointed up even if I was so sad after it, it did not meant that it did not happen. I still experience true love in this live time no matter how long it lasted. And I learned a lot about me and what I want in life.

I wish for you to manifest all that you want until I see you in my next post. God bless!

Inspiration

The resistance to happiness

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I want to talk to you about this obstacle on your way of being happy.

Sometimes life can get good, so good that you can’t believe it. And then you may start to doubt that you are that happy in that moment of your life. And when you have doubts you end up being less happy than you would without them. Life is still good for you but you are not glad of that as would be normal to feel.

That, my darling readers, is the resistance to happiness. And it is a very often thing. If you felt in your past unworthy of all the good, although in your present may have healed part of that, sometimes the unworthiness appears again when you least expected. Maybe this question appears in the back of your mind: “I am such a good person to be so happy?”

Yes, my darlings, you are. You are worthy, you always have been. So let go of the resistance to happiness and embrace the good time with all of your being. You deserve it!

See you in my next post and God bless!

Spiritual

About this April’s manifestation power

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

How is the energy of this April for you? I am manifesting my dreams like crazy.

I started by changing the old furniture in my apartment. But as I got the courage to change and let go of things I was attached to, a lot of other events started to appear in my life and to move my life in a new direction.

The people in my life told me how hard and expensive is to do the modifications to my flat as I wanted. They said it would take for ever. But as soon as I decided what I wanted, skilled craftsmen appeared in my life and made my dreams and needs for my flat came true and in a very short time.

After that I wanted to meet a nice single man and I did. I did not liked him. So in the next day I met a new guy with all the qualities of the previous man but much closer of what I wanted. And I met him by chance. Why I met 2 of them in consecutive days? It’s because the Universe tests you sometimes by sending you first something you don’t want first to see if you love yourself enough to wait for something better.

I never in my life manifested something so quickly. It is not scary to have your heart’s desires as long as you are positive. But I do not know what cause all these changes in my life so quickly.

I am very grateful for all my desires that come true. Maybe this fast manifestation is cause by all the planetary and energies shifts that happened in this April of 2024.

If you have any idea why I manifest so fast please write a comment to enlighten me. Thank you.

See you in my next post and God bless!

Inspiration

Having your own back

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

“Change is part of life.” Or “life means change”. I think you heard that in your life from the people around you either to encourage you or to comfort you when life was hard on you. But how is change for you?

I am highly adaptable person but I still have trouble with some changes in my life too. Although I change a lot as a person, I grow and develop all my life I still get scared of the unknown. When you get scared like that and you do not know how will you make through this one, you have to have your own back.

Remember that in your past you made it through a lot worst than what you are going today. You are a survivor and a very strong person in your own unique way. And if you made it this far, don’t you want to see what are you up too next?

See your life like a movie and you are the main star of it. And you are playing the role of your life, so make it a good one. Yes, change can be hard but it comes with rewards, too. Have a good mindset and you will make it every time.

Encouraging yourself every step of your life, is a very powerful self-care technique and a way to show yourself more love.

See you in my next post and God bless!

Spiritual

Making room for the new

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

You need to make room for something new in your life. It can be a new lover, a new mindset, a new job, a new home or just new furniture.

Let’s say you want to change the furniture in a new place that you just got. You can go to a store and just buy new furniture and pay for it to be brought in to your home if you don’t have room for it. You need first to get ride of the old one in order to get the new one.

It is the same principle if you want to be more positive and to have a healthier mindset. First you need to stop complaining and enjoying being negative and then you can get used to being more positive every day. A good method for that it is to stop saying negative stuff and after that to stop thinking them. And you will get used to not being negative. And you will make room for different topics and thoughts.

It is the same if you want a new job. If you already have a job that you hate or just don’t like you may start looking for your dream job. By preparing for this new job you get a separation from the old one. By seen yourself in a new and interesting job you change enough to get it. Be realistic about that but the Universe likes if you have room in your life for what do you want.

You can make room for the new even by cleaning your house. In this way the energy of the house changes. And your home is an extension of yourself. You can see my post about the positive effects of cleaning your house in another of my post, here.

See you in my next post and God bless!

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Spiritual

Looking for love in all the wrong places

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

Have you ever were desperate for love? If you say No. I do not believe that not even once in your life you loved a wrong-for-you person.

Maybe someone tricked you into believing that they are the only source of love in to this world for you, maybe they were married and hit it from you, maybe you just fell in love and it was not shared. No matter for what reason you suffered maybe unnecessary.

What is the lesson? What there is to be known from this?

It is said that all the love is in us, that our soul that is part of God it is made of love. Looking for love it is normal. We do it since we are born until we die, but as we have it in us all this time, maybe we can stop looking for it outside.

If you pay attention although you don’t get the love you want from a lover/husband/ partner you can still have in your life love from other persons/pets that are in your life:

a kind neighbor that is nice to you,

your all loving loyal pet,

a family member,

a kind college,

or a smile from a stranger.

Love is in you as it is in the people around you.

Looking for the love in the wrong places can only cause us misery. There is a practice called Letters from Love. I wrote about it in another post and you can check it here, to know how it is done. You can get answers from LOVE itself and hear from it all that you want to hear from a loved one. This is a great comfort when you are desperate for a love that maybe another person it is unable to give you.

Also you have the love of all the divine beings that are with you all the time. They are made of love. And if you pray to them you can ask them to surround you with their loving arms and protect you from this feeling of lack of love.

I hope to find what you are looking for inside yourself and be happy.

See you in my next post and God bless!

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Spiritual

A purification prayer

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

As I promised the last time, today I give you a purification prayer to Archangel Michael.

This prayer you say it every time you feel overwhelmed, or after a fight with a co-worker or a family member, or after work before you come in to your home, or before you go to sleep. If you don’t feel well you can say it in all those situations.

You can say it only once before go to sleep especially when you can’t go to sleep because you overthink everything that happen to you that day. But you are allowed to say it as many times a day as you need to find your peace of mind.

Dear Archangel Michael,

Please, cleanse me of thoughts, emotions and energies that are not mine. Please, cleanse me of thoughts, emotions and energies that are not longer serve me. Please, purify and protect me of adverse entities and their influences. Take your sword of fire and cut down all the energy cords I have with other people, places and things. And make it in this way that I am not longer drained of my precious energy. Thank you. Amen.

See you in my next post and God bless!

PS: My next post will be about how to enjoy your life more. Subscribe if you want to not miss it!

Spiritual

A protection prayer

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I was asked today for some prayers of protection and purification for a person or a place, and I think you may need one or two of them.

I will write today for you a free-style prayer for protection and the next week I will write one for purifying yourself of bad energies and adverse entities. So subscribe if you don’t want to miss the next post.

The prayer from today you need to say it after you wake up or before you go out of your house and about your day.

“Dear God/ Universe/ Jesus/ Virgin Mary/ Archangel Michael/ or any other entity of light that you prefer,

Please protect me, my family and the ones we love. Thank you for protecting our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health. Thank you for protecting our bodily integrity. Thank you for protecting our places where we live, our bank accounts, our identities, our work, our pets and everything else that needs your protection.

Thank you. Amen.”

It is a pretty simple prayer and you can get used to saying it every day very easy. Having faith that an entity of light is watching over you and everything that you love is a great comfort.

See you in the next post and God bless!

Spiritual

Grieving vs depression

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I want to talk about the difference between grieving and being depressed.

When I lost last year someone dear to me I was sad and I was grieving for not so long period of time. But I was accused by some of my friends of being depressed. They are not medical doctors. And depression is an disease. So it need to be diagnosed by a professional health care person.

Grieving after a lost of a person, a job, a place, a pet that you loved it is so normal. And it takes different amounts of time in order to be over which depends of the importance of that lost in your life.

For instance even if you lose a pet, you may suffer a great deal. For some people that never loved a pet, this lost may seem unimportant. But if that pet was the only source of love in this world for you, the lost of it is huge. And it is normal to be sad, cry and do what ever it takes to move over your lost. But if in time, you find joy and beauty in life without medication, you were never depressed.

When you lose something precious that made your life better, it’s like you have an empty space in your life. And you do not know who or what will fill it. But when you are depressed you are in an abyss of despair all the time and you can’t find your way out.

From grieving you can get depressed but it is not a rule to get it.

Energetic when you lose a being that you loved, you suffer because its energy transformed and move on from this plane of existence. And as human beings we can see other plane of existence, like the once where our lost loved ones are. So we think of them being lost and we grieve their absence.

In depression, an adverse entity is with the sick person, eating their vital energy. These entities feed on sadness and they stay with the person whispering them more bad thoughts to deepen their despair. As long as the person is feeling like that, the entity feeds with their energy and it does not go away. It is like a vicious circle. That is way people with depression take a long time to get ride of it and some times they relapse.

I hope this information helped you in some way you needed.

I wish you a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

I am baaack!

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I missed you too much to stay away more from you!

So although I did not finish my new book, yet, I want to start writing here again. Give me a LIKE if you missed my writings, too.

So many things happen in this 2 months that I stopped posting here. The year 2024 is a good year for me, up to this point. As the energies of the Earth change and we get so many downloads every day, it is normal to be changed.

I wanted a more peaceful life. And I got it! But I had to let go of the people and the mindset that complicated my life in the first place. It was hard especially because I had this draining-energy relationships for a very long time. After I cut the energy cords and went on my way, I felt very free and a bit sad. Sometimes we morn a little for what we think we lost. But being free and having all our precious energy for ourselves it is a good deal.

I will post once a week at least. I do not know in which day of the week so subscribe to get all my post in time.

Have a wonderful day or night and God bless!

Inspiration

Taking a break

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I think I am going to focus my energy on writing my new book. I will take a break from posting here. I do not know how long this break would be.

Last time I wrote my book : “Talking with my angel” only in a few months.

I already have over 40 pages in my new book so it won’t take long to have it done.

I am very excited to write again a first draft of a book. And to give it all to that project.

I wish you all to be as creative as you can! You can see my card reading for 2024, here.

Have great 2024 and God bless!

Inspiration

A new book

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I am a writer but I did not wrote a book in a while. I did not have the writer’s block because I wrote here every Wednesday and every Saturday. I also keep a journal daily. I just did not feel like writing a book until now.

I intend to write a new edition of: “The medium”, the book I withdrew from printing a few years ago. When I wrote it, I was not healed from the events I was writing about, but now I am. I can be more objective in a new version of the beginning of my spiritual journey.

2023 was a year of change. Maybe in this year we can all be more creatives. I am starting my new book. Wish me luck!

I am wishing you again on 2024 to have enough peace to be as creative as you can.

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

YouTube or TV?

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

What you prefer to watch YouTube channels or TV with their channels?

What do you think about the influencers? They do influence you.

I follow on YouTube a cooking channel and today I cooked a delicious diner. What you consume matters.

I guess I prefer YouTube channels of my own choosing. I am interested in things like minimalism, slow living, slow travel and I found a lot of channels for those. I do not follow any spiritual channel on YouTube because I prefer to read books about that subject. But for my hobbies and interests I follow some influencers on YouTube.

I did not watch television since 2012. I watch TV shows but not on a TV channels. Again I like to be able to choose when I watch something in my spare time and not to depend on the program made by a television. Does spiritual people still watch television? Another question that makes me wonder.

This is my opinion. What is yours?

Have a great day or night and God bless!

Inspiration

No resolutions for 2024

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

No resolutions for 2024. Why ? you ask. I can explain why.

You know it is good for you to:

  • eat healthy
  • exercise
  • not to get angry as often
  • meditate or pray daily
  • sleep enough
  • laugh more
  • play with your pet
  • call your parents
  • do your best at work
  • practice your hobby
  • clean and declutter your house

The list can go on but those points from above are not resolutions. They are just things that can keep you physical, mental, emotional and spiritual healthy. You do not need for a New year to come to start doing them. You can start any day to take good care of yourself.

I want this year to be myself all the time. But it is not a resolution. It is more a surprise from 2023 when I started to be myself and the world did not end by that. I am more peaceful and I consume less energy being authentic than pretending to be someone I am not.

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

A superstition about the new year

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

How was your first day from this year?

It is a superstition that you can predict how this year would be for you after the first 24 hours of it. If you had a good time, the year would be like that for you. If you were sad or felt alone, the entire year will feel like that.

For me, the New Year’s Eve is the most important celebration. I like to spend it doing an introspection of the year that is passing and thinking of what I want to change in my life in the next year. That evening I prepare my mindset for the entire year that is coming. And then after I go to sleep I get to live in the superstition that I mentioned above. Every year I try to go through the first 24 hours as happy as I can. But not every time I get away with that.

After how I spend the first 24 hours of 2024, I will have a very good year.

Do you believe in this superstition? Do you have this belief or other one like it?

Have a great day or night and God bless!

Spiritual

Card reading for 2024

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

As I promise I made a card reading for you, my readers, to help you in the year 2024. My question was:

What my readers need to know in 2024?

The answer was 3 cards:

1 The sense of humor

This year, all the situations in which you do not know what to do can be improved with a good sense of humor. The archangel and all the angels have a good sense of humor. And they know that when you laugh, you can change your vibration and you can get in a better mood. In the year 2024 watch a lot of comedies. Take time and go to a stand-up comedy show. Read and maybe learn a few jokes to tell your friends and spread the laughter. Have lots of laughter this year. They say that laughing even improves your immune system. 

2 Explore your options

This card means that you lasted too long in a situation in which you are unsafe or just uncomfortable. Your patience is remarkable but it’s time to find other options for your present situation. If you have problems at work maybe it’s time to update your CV and find another job or ask for a raise. If your living situations are not what you hoped for, it is time to start looking for a different flat or house. If your relationship with a friend or a lover it is not going well, this year it is time to look for other options. That means either to try to improve your relationship or if you can’t, maybe it’s time to end it. If you are in an unhealthy relationship remember that you are not alone if you ended.

In this year you are supported by Archangel Michael to find other options for your problems. Get that second opinion from a different medical doctor, from a lawyer or other type of specialist you need. Do what you need to feel safe and good again.

3 Rely on God and angels for help

These days you find yourself in a situation that needs the Divine’s help. You are a strong person but even the strongest of us need help sometimes. If you try to solve your problems by yourself it can be too much for you. This card means that:

  • It is time to let other people help you if they offer,
  • Ask for the help of your family and friends,
  • Go to a guidance counselor to speak about your problems.

The cards can guide you in all the situations that you do not know what to do in 2024, but are only to be taken as advice. Because you know better what you want and what it best for you, in the end.

May 2024 be better than 2023 in all the aspects of your life and God bless!

Inspiration, Spiritual

Resting on Winter Holidays

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

It’s a blizzard outside and I have a cold. What else can I do but rest?

My house is clean because I did that in the beginning of this month. I have enough food to last me this Winter Holidays so… I am staying in.

Don’t feel sorry for me. I catch up with a lot of TV shows on Netflix. And I cuddle up with my cat. I have all that I need. I also did my positive affirmations and my meditation from dr Joe every day. My mindset is very healthy. Only my body needs more rest. To give your body what it needs when it needs it is self-care at its core.

If I did not have this cold I would go out every day outside and go here and there and not rest. But I think a vacation’s purpose is not just to have fun and get tired by doing a million things, I think is also to rest .

Energetically, 2023 was a very difficult year with a lot of changes. Maybe we all need some rest at the end of this year.

On 31 December in the evening I will do a card reading for 2024 and I will post it here, for you.

Until then I wish you: Happy Holidays and God bless!

Inspiration, Spiritual

Stay positive

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

In April this year I started a few spiritual practices like: Louise Hay’s positive affirmations, Joe Dispenza’s meditations and a gratitude journal. A few months I did all those daily and my life change for the better.

Then in September I started to work full time again and I felt I did not have time to do all those practices every day. So I started to skip doing all those and I had even days in which I did no spiritual practice.

In the time I stopped being so committed to changing my life for the better, my mindset started to become more negative. Because in this world is so much negativity all around us, if you do not do something on purpose to stay positive we will fail and become like the world in which we live in.

I understand that I stopped doing my positive spiritual practices just when my life started to get good. A lot of people stop there. The secret is to keep going until your life amazes you for how good it can get.

So a few days ago I started again with all the spiritual practices I mentioned above and it is going very well, especially that I am not new to these habits.

Wish me luck! You also need one or a few spiritual practices to take care of your mindset and your positive energy.

Have a great night or day and God bless!

Spiritual

Always protected

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

Yesterday late in the evening I was waiting for the last bus to go home. I was coming from a party from work. I was dressed nice and I was afraid to be on my own so late.

Suddenly, a very big dog came to me. He wanted to smell me to see if I had any food for him. I let him smell me and I talked to him saying I did not have anything to give to him. He sat down next to me and stayed there until my bus came. In that time a group of 4 men walked passed the bus stop and they were looking toward me but they did not approached me because of the dog. As he was staying next to me, he appeared to be mine and guarding me. So the men walked away and I was safe and not alone until my bus took me at home.

I commute in that city every working day and I never see that dog until yesterday’s evening. You can say it was just a coincidence to appear when he did, but as a spiritual person I know there are no coincidence in life only synchronicity.

The message from the Universe to me was that: “You are always protected and don’t you forget that, my love.”

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

Alone on the Winter holidays

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

Do you enjoy this season of winter celebrations? I love it so far.

If you are alone, do you feel sorry for yourself in this season, harder than in other days? I do not feel that being single and living alone is so bad. I heard a lot that the winter holidays are harder if you are alone. I don’t feel the same way.

It is a season in which I spoil myself with gifts. I buy what I need for my home and also what I desire for myself. I had hot chocolate and cinnamon roles for dinner today. My house is very clean and I decorated last weekend with candles and other items to make it as cozy as possible. What is not to like in this season?

I think that if you are alone, you are free to do what you please. Others are dreading to be with a family that they hate. Or they are so busy hosting a party which they don’t want that they don’t have time to have fun. But you can.

You can see the good in your situation and do the best you can with what you have. Again being grateful for what you have makes the difference of how you see yourself and your life.

Have a great night or day and God bless!

Inspiration

Having enough

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

Do you have a time in your life when you don’t want for anything? It is not because you have it all, but because you have enough to be happy.

Not all the aspect of my life are in order but I recently found myself concentrating on what I have and what is working in my life. And from my feeling of appreciation, a little bit of happiness came in my life again.

It was not hard to get happy again. I still keep a gratitude journal but in the past 2 months it was very hard to find things to be grateful for. But focusing on what I did have working for me, I got better at appreciating my life once more.

If one aspect in your life is not as you wanted, it is not a reason to dismissed all the good in your life. Focus on what you have and what you like and you will get more of them. And maybe in time that one aspect, you are still working on, will fall into place, too.

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

The time to heal

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

You know when you have a peaceful time in your life and nothing new seems to happen, that is your time to heal.

We all have what seems as boring times, when you have time to do all you want and still nothing takes you out of your routine. That is the time to let go of the past and make room for the new experiences you want.

If the Universe granted you these moments of peace and quiet, don’t complain that you are bored. It is just time to work on yourself. It is a time of forgiving the past and enjoying the present moment. From this even happy present you can build a better future for yourself.

So let go of the stuff that don’t allow you to have what you really want in life. Let go of unhealthy habits, to make room for more enchanting experiences.

Have a great night or day and God bless!

Spiritual

Divine timing

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I do not have patience. I am cultivating this skill but I am a novice at that.

When I want something in life, I wanted now. And I get upset when I do not get it the minute that I think of the object of my desire. I am like a spoiled kid like that. I know it.

But every desire of mine that was good for my well-being I got it in time. And I got what I wanted in a better way than I did imagine it.

Because of my impatience and the delay in the fulfillment of my wish I sometimes don’t have faith in the divine plan and the divine timing. And this lack of patience causes me anxiety, worries, and a lack of trust in the Universe. Is it the Universe’s fault? No. Am I at fault? Not, really. I am a child of God. And when I was created I was made very decisive. So my impatience comes from there. But what I want and when I wanted may not be good for me, not right away or maybe never.

If you are like me then the solution to your anxiety and worries for your future is a dose of patience with a sprinkle of faith on top. And the divine timing will get you at the right for you time the best outcome you deserve.

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

The joys in a boring life

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

There is no such thing as a boring life. We all come with an interesting story behind us. But we, the main character of our lives, think that it is boring if we compare it with others.

So my life is simple and peaceful. It is like that since recent. And I had to change my mindset in order to get peaceful. So in my ordinary life, I still find a lot of simple joys. I have this week off. I did not have to do something drastic like going in a vacation far away from my home. In stead I cleaned my flat. I decluttered the things I did not need anymore. I did some gift shopping for my family and friends. I put up some decorations. I read a good book. I watched movies. I had time for my creative hobbies.

And I did some shopping for myself. I bought a few things to make my life easier. And I like these things very much and how they change my life for better.

If you can afford to buy something to make your life easier. Do it. You deserved it. You are welcome!

Have a great night or day and God bless!

Inspiration, Spiritual

Enjoy the life that was given to you

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I got a tea with a positive affirmation written on my tea bag. The affirmation for me was: Enjoy the life that was given to you!

And I took this message seriously. I may complain that in my life I lack the love of my life or a bigger friends’ circle or this or that. But I can enjoy what I do have. I have a good life without those things or the people that I think I lack. And it is very important to see that.

In my case, lacking a partner is not that worst. I have friends in my life that are in bad romantic relationships and that I think is much harder. I have love in my life. Yes, it comes in different forms than a romantic partner but I do have love in my life.

I do not have a lot of close friends, but I am very good friends with a lot of my colleagues. So I have a big circle of casual friends. That is still something.

I think we tend to focus on what we lack and miss all the good that we have. Having something different than what we want is still amazing.

I am sure you are doing the same thing, at least in one aria of your life. Am I right?

Have a wonderful weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

Always gratitude

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

When I move in to my flat after a long time in which I couldn’t afford to live on my own, I felt so much gratitude. I had intimacy after many years in which I had to live with my close family in a smaller flat than mine.

I felt so grateful for having personal space that I did not care that the flat was very old and it had not been renovated since it was built. It did not matter its old appearance or the furniture which was a bit broken. My flat for me was heaven.

always gratitude
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I had personal space and after work I could do what I pleased. I wrote my first book in the first year after I move there. It was as quiet as I wanted. I watched which movies I wanted. I listen to my kind of music. I could finally have a pet. I had a safe place to gather all my things and know that no one would go through them without my permission. I could go out and come back without any of my family member giving me the evil eye for bothering them. I could do as I wanted and it was heaven for me.

A few years later I renovated it but it was not all to my taste. And I also kept a lot of old furniture, the one which was not broken, but I did not restore it. While I renovated I trained to see the mistakes the builders were making. And in that process I lost the gratitude I had for having my own place.

So I have a new renovated apartment and no gratitude for it. It is so easy to become as discontent as the most of the people and complain a lot all the time. I will change that. It is always good to have gratitude especially for something I wanted for so long.

Have a great day or night and God bless!

Inspiration

Early evaluation for 2023

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

It is snowing in my city. I feel that this weekend it is a good time to make a early evaluation of my year.

It was a hard year but I am in a better place now that I was in the beginning of 2023. It was energetically a hard year. I had to change my mindset and all the aspects of my life fell into place after that.

The other days I was noticing what peaceful I am at work, that I make a good living and my life is great. It took a lot of change from my part to get there.

I shared here that I made since April 2023 positive affirmations from Louise Hay for self-esteem and stress relief. And they worked as a charm. I became very confident, something I lacked all my life.

I meditated with Dr Joe Dispenza’s kaleidoscope meditation. And I participated in 2 global meditation with the same spiritual teacher. I come a long way because of these practices.

I still keep I gratitude journal and it is amazing to read from it what I wrote a few months ago. I had so little to be grateful for, when I started this practice and now I feel I have so much.

I know it is not the New Years’ Eve to evaluate 2023 yet. But because there are 6 more weeks from this year, you can still change your present situation to one more to your liking.

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

A cozy mood

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

It is time to get cozy at home! I like this time of year. It darkens very fast outside and it is more custom to stay inside and to have indoor hobbies. It is the time to write books, journals, draw and spend time with my pet.

I like to light candles, to make card readings as often as I want, because the mood of the night it is here from around 4 pm. I like to burn sage and incense, to warm my house and make myself cozy on my sofa. I can read books and watch movies. I like to use the oven to cook.

The weather outside is very gloomy. Maybe it will snow and then everything will be white and shiny. But until then we have to do with what it is.

Have a great day or night and God bless!

Spiritual

Walk for the world 11.11 11 am est

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

There is a new meditation Walk for the world 2023, today, at 11 est. I am going to participate as I did on 23 September 2023. It was the same meditation and 140.000 people participated from all over the world. You can download the meditation from that dr Joe Dispenza’s site. The meditation is free and it last around 55 minute.

Last time I participate in this global meditation I felt so good after that. You also get that feeling coming from your soul that you are doing your purpose. But it is also a feeling of well-being. You get your energy levels up. You feel connected with all the other people that are participating.

If you are a light-worker like me, you may feel alone from time to time, because there are not so many of us on Earth, yet. So, participating in a global event like this with a lot of others like me and from my own home, it is a real spiritual treat.

I hope I connect with you in today’s global meditation!

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

Take time to breath

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

Do you have time to slow down or is your life slipping through my fingers?

If you want to have a life with a lot of activities in your spare time, you will get that feeling of rush. Because your spare time might be limited and if you plan things to do in every minute of it, you will feel like the time flew by. And you will feel like you did not got to do everything you wanted.

I am all about having some fun, but I believe you need some time to rest, to do nothing, to even get bored. If you do not have time to sit alone with yourself you will not get to know yourself. Your life might fly away and you will not know even what you want out of it. You may live from activity to activity, feeling busy and important but empty inside.

You are not here on Earth to be busy with things that don’t make your soul to sing. Having fun is okay. Being busy with work, with your children, your parents, your friends, your household, your pets, your chores is okay, but don’t forget to smell the roses.

We all have responsibilities and we all want in our spare time to do other things that we love. All I am saying is to take time to sit quite and relax. You are allowed to rest and to breath from time to time.

Have a great night or day and God bless!

Inspiration

Getting my life back

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I love my life again. In my last post I explained where I was loosing a lot of my precious energy. After I took my attention from that aria of my life, I got back most of my energy and my power. I was so involved in that activity and with those people that I was not aware of the price I was paying by not being in the right place.

But all that is in my past now. It is so easy to decide what it is best for yourself. It is a little bit harder to cut off the toxic people, bad habits and activities. But it can be done, by you too!

And after I took my power and energy back, I got to enjoy my life again. It only took a few days. And I see that this peace I found again is spreading in other arias of my life. I am more peaceful at work and I know how to get more enjoyment there. I appreciate again the little things I do at my house. I remembered that I have a lot of hobbies that I can do. And this are only the things I can do alone. I also can spend time with the people I love or with my pets.

Because I wanted something that was not for me, I lost my peace of mind. Letting go of that activity and the people that came with that, made me very well again. Pay attention to what is draining you of your precious energy and let that go as soon as you can and then you will be fine once more.

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

Finding peace again

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

As I experience lost recently I had a hard time getting rid of the sadness, although sadness doesn’t usually stay with me long. And I did not know why I was feeling so low. But then I got it.

Five months ago, I started a new hobby because I wanted to meet more people and maybe get more friends in my life. And I went there every week. Every night after every meeting I could not sleep well. And it took me a few days to restore my energy. So I felt off the whole summer and I was blaming it on the heat. But then the autumn came. It was no more summer’s heat and I was still felt like sick after those meetings.

I wanted so much to get the friends I came there to find that I did not connect the fact that I was feeling like sick after every meeting. Maybe I was in denial of what was going on with me because I wanted so much to get my own way.

I know you are doing the same thing from time to time, to force something just because you wanted so much. And then pay the consequences.

When I connected the dots and I understand that staying with those people every week was hurting me more that I wanted to admit, it was very easy to decide to stop going there. And in a few days I found peace again. My energy is back on. And I found a new more healthy hobby which is better for myself.

Have a great day or night, and God bless!

Inspiration

You have enough

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

Take what you can from life! Don’t cry for what is missing in your life, but see clearly what you do have. Find in life things that you like. Even when you think you are discontent by something, find the positive side in that.

Maybe you do not have a life partner. But you have a best friend. You are richer than others. Your best friend is someone in your life that is there for you. It may be even your only friend, and you still have someone important on your journey.

Maybe you do not own a house but you rent a room. You can make that room your own with your things and your energy. And in this way you still have your intimacy and a refuge in this world to call home.

Maybe you do not like your job. But you have a job. You can pay your bills and get the food that you need. So it is a start. As long as you have your current job, you have time to look for a better job and have a home and other stuff you need for living.

Maybe you do not like your life right now. But do not dismissed all that is good in your life just for a few things that are missing. Take the present moment as a beginning for what you want in the future and that might help you appreciate it, more .

See what you have in your life and be grateful for all, and maybe you will see that it is enough. I bet that you have a lot. I bet you can be happy with what you have even when you think you are missing something.

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

Enjoy the autumn

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

Do you enjoy this season? Do you enjoy your life, in general?

This October was full of change for me. And like all the people I tried to resist it and I suffered. But after I had my share of suffering I remembered that life is change and I moved on.

What made me move on? The autumn. It is a very beautiful season. And the weather is still very warm. So I started to take pictures of the trees with their colorful leaves. And I took pictures with some animals and birds I see on my commute. I noticed the clouds in the sky, the sunsets, the moon and the stars. And little by little I started to see the beauty of this season.

If you can see all the beauty that it is all around you, you will become positive. Because life is beautiful. It is not easy, but it is very beautiful.

So, see, you do not need to do anything too hard to change your mindset from negative to positive. All it takes is to see the beauty that already is in your life. And start to look for it every day.

Have a wonderful day or night and God bless!

Spiritual

Transmuting sadness

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

There is so much sadness in the world right now. There are 2 wars, and so much poverty and hunger and people afraid for their safety. I thought I was sad because 2 weeks before today I lost a soul mate. But that just made me sensitive to the sadness in the world.

As a light-worker transmuter I transform that negative energy that I am more sensitive to, in that moment. Right now, I transmute sadness for all the people I interact with, daily. I was surprised to see how much of this negative feeling there is all around me.

I am doing a lot of work on myself to not fall into negativity. It is like inside myself I am well and positive but I am wrapped in a cocoon of sadness that is not my own. And I from inside cut through the sadness to get out.

For me it is normal to transmute negative feelings. So don’t worry about me. I am fine and so are the people I am helping by taking their suffering on myself. I am just not use to sadness because I am usually happy.

Stay positive and have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

Simple pleasures

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

To have a simple and happy life is to find the joy in simple pleasures:

  • put some cinnamon in your coffee to make it more festive
  • wake up a little early to start your day more slowly
  • get dressed in your favorite clothes even is a Wednesday and you just go to work
  • watch the trees changing colors when you commute
  • talk a bit more with your co-workers and don’t rush all day at work
  • take a break and breath deeply during work
  • make yourself a healthy meal in the evening
  • take time to do nothing in your spare time
  • do something creative like a hobby
  • watch your favorite movie
  • spend time with your loved ones (pets or humans)

The list may go on and change in the weekend with more simple pleasures of your choosing. You are allowed to enjoy your life at the fullest.

Have a great day or night and God bless!

Inspiration

Doing nothing

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

It’s weekend. People around me are doing a lot of stuff but I prefer to rest and recharge. It was a very hard week emotionally and energetically. I lost a soul-mate. It was a very hectic week at work. And I had to much of socializing for an empath. I am not meant to go out every evening like I did this past week.

When you feel tired physically or mentally take some time off. Even that I knew myself to be tired I kept on pushing to do more. Why do we need to do more and more every day? Don’t we feel good enough unless we achieve everything on our to-do list?

Doing nothing
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So because I am tired I took the entire weekend all for myself. I am staying in, and just relax and do the bare minimum.

It is a very powerful thing to do nothing. You can recharge, of course, but you can also get to know what you want or what you really need. And then you can get that for yourself. You can get to know yourself by paying attention to yourself. Spending time alone is not wasted. You can do more of what your soul wants. And that is always giving you a state of well-being.

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

Self-sabotage

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I almost did not post today and I blame it on self-sabotage. But I see it in other areas of my life too.

I become positive this year and a happy person. I change jobs and I had a lot of other positive changes in my life because I became positive. But you need discipline to keep what you achieved.

As I was happy and content I did not meditate every day. I did not listen to Louise Hay’s positive affirmation that change my view of life. Sometimes I write in my gratitude journal but not every day. So I see myself having past behaviors since I was a very angry and discontent woman. If I keep it up I will return to my old self and lose my happiness and my new gained positivity.

We are living in a very negative world and if we do not practice every day a spiritual and positive method of our choice we do not stand a chance. The negativity will get us. So don’t do what I did and do as I say: practice, practice, practice.

Have a great day or night and God bless!

Spiritual

Grieving after a soul-mate

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I lost someone I love. How can you see the positive side to that?

I had loved him and that is the most important. I met him, I got to know him, I liked him, and I fallen in love with that being. That is the most important. I deeply feel the lost of that friend. But that is the prove that it was also love between us.

I feel sad because I lost a soul-mate. But I know that we meet many soul-mate during our time. The love, I got from that friend will come back to me in a different form from someone else. I will meet a different soul-mate to love and to love me. It can be a person or a pet but it will come into my life. Maybe that is the only positive side you can see in a lost.

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

How to enjoy your life more

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

5 simple things that you can do to enjoy your life more:

1. Notice the starting of a new season of the year. See the beauty of it. And enjoy the warmer clothes and the falling leaves. There is so much beauty all around us and we do not notice it. We miss a lot by not living in the present moment.

2. Get some hot chocolate and start a gratitude journal. It doesn’t matter if you don’t know how to do it or for what you are grateful in the beginning. You need to write only 5 things a day that made you enjoy today.

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3. Have a good night sleep! Feeling rested is very great for your well-being. Go to bed early or take a afternoon nap if you find the time. Your body needs to rest otherwise you will get sick in time.

4. Practice some form of exercise. Your body needs movement and fresh air. You can go for a walk around the block in the evenings to clear your head. You can do some yoga or pilates from YouTube on your carpet. You can go for a run.

5 Have a creative hobby, anything that you love. And practice it at least once a week. It will give sense to your life.

Learn to do things for your well- being. This is the true self-care.

Have a great day or night and God bless!

Inspiration

Appreciate everything

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

How was your day? Did you got to do everything you wanted? Did you have fun? Did you rest?

I think there is no such thing as a perfect day in which you do everything that you wanted. If you get to have fun you don’t have time to rest proper. If you got to do everything on your to-do list you did not have time for fun or rest. If you rest to much you get bored and so on.

There is no perfect day but you can make it better by appreciating everything you got to do:

  • You saw a friend you did not see in a while.
  • You got all your groceries for a week or two.
  • You clean the house today.
  • You rest in bed with the flu.
  • You spend time with your pet.
  • You worked all day.
  • You played with your kids.
  • you hiked with your partner.
  • you made love.
  • you did nothing and liked it.
  • you declutter your garage.
  • you spend time with your parents.

No matter what you did, you have to appreciate it and know that tomorrow is a new day to do the rest of the things you want to do. When you appreciate the little moments, you will start to like your life and yourself. It’s a shift in your perception that will make you love your life.

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

The inspiration behind my writings

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I am very disappointed that my last post did not got more views. ( you can check it, here) It is like every time I put more love in a post, it doesn’t do great. Or maybe if it has more meaning only a few people need to read it.

I am happy that I can write. I did not have any writer’s block in years. So you can see that in life you have to take your winning from everywhere they come. Maybe a post I loved doesn’t do great but I really liked writing it. And for some people it was meaningful. It doesn’t matter that I am not a successful writer because I pay my bills in another way.

Having a different job than writing lets my art be free. I usually write with inspiration from archangel Gabriel, the patron of writers. Or when I stare at the blank screen I pray to my angels for inspiration and it comes. I recently read a post from a few years ago and I was surprised how good it was. My angels make good muses.

I guess it is easy for my angels to inspire me to write spiritual posts, or posts about how to be happy. I love writing about angels, positive thinking, positive affirmations, meditations, other spiritual practices and giving hope to my readers in general.

So to all my readers, a warm thank you. Our community is not so large but it is very loyal. I appreciate every one of you and I love when you comment or like my posts.

Thank you so much my darling readers. I wish you a wonderful day or night and God bless!

Inspiration, Spiritual

Another “just be happy” post

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

It only takes one person to change your life and make you happy. Now, go to a mirror and take a very good look to that person.

You can be happy right now, why aren’t you?

Do you postpone your happiness expecting something to happen in your future? Do you expect to achieve something or to meet someone to be happy?

Yes, happiness is a choice. You just choose to be happy.

How do you feel in this moment in time? Where are you? What are you doing? Who are you with?

Are you in a place you do not like? Move. Are you doing something you don’t like? Do something else. Are you with someone that doesn’t makes you feel good? Be with someone else. But at the end of your day, just be happy with yourself and your choices. If you do make a mistake it is not the end of the world. Next time you will know better and do better.

To make this post a little bit spiritual too I will remind you that God who created the entire galaxies, also create you. So you are a child a God and you are in plan created to include you too. You grow in your hard times and they all pass. And you have or will have better times. You are divinely protected and guided. You are been taking care of by your God and its angels. So just be happy because that is your only job on Earth!

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Spiritual

A prayer for your guardian angel

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

How are you doing with your spiritual practice?

Do you have one by now or you still did not find the one for you?

I have a little suggestion for you: say a little pray to your guardian angel. Any time you do not feel well, uneasy in some way, in danger, or stuck, ask for help from your angel.

It is very good to have a strong bond with your guardian angel who is always by your side. It is there to protect and guide you, that is its purpose. When you ask for its help, you allow him to intervene in your behalf.

If you do not say any prayer for your guardian angel and you do not know how to come up with your personal prayer, here is something to help you:

My dearest angel,

Please, help me in my day with all that I have to do and learn. Cover me with your wings and protect me. Let me feel the love you have for me so I would never feel alone. Guide me every step of my way, today and every day. Thank you. Amen.

I hope this will make you feel the love of your angel and help you with all that you have to learn today and every day.

Have a great night or day and God bless!

Spiritual

How to make a place your own

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

I am very proud of my home and of my space at my work place. They really feel as my own. I made them my own and I will tell you how.

When you move into a new house/ room/ flat or you start a new job you come there in contact with old energies. The people that owned those spaces imprinted them with their energies. And you need to clean that out. In a space there can be trapped energies from past arguments and other negative situations, from maybe people that have died or just energies that are not of your own. You can feel sick when the low energies that don’t match your vibration. So what can be done?

You can do one or more from bellow for a place to live in:

  • first clean the space of old furniture especially if you have your own
  • try not to keep almost anything from the former owners
  • after that clean the space from top to bottom
  • put some sounds of wind chimes if you don’t have one to hug in the balcony or above the door for keeping the bad spirits away
  • burn some incense or sage and bring the smoke in every room or every corner of the place for purification
  • arrange your furniture maybe in a Feng Shui way
  • put some crystals in the corner of the room or the house for protection
  • next you can bring in the house things or beings that you love: pets, plants, other crystals, pictures, books, and so on.
how to make a place of your own
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For a work place you can clean it as well as you can, arrange your desk as you want and you can put objects that you love on it after that. You can do only that, assuming that the place has furniture already, and you may even have colleagues in the same room with you. You can also listen to music that you love on your headphones if you are allowed.

I hope this help you in a way that you need.

Have a great weekend and God bless!

Inspiration

Moving your energy

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

It is very important to move your energy.

When you feel stuck in a situation or you are not feeling well as usual you can do 2 simple things to help yourself.

You can clean your house, to move the energies from that place. Your home is an extension of yourself and of all the people that live in it. By cleaning your house I mean a little decluttering of all the things you did not use for a while, a mild cleaning to get rid of the dust and dirt from your home and opening of all the window to let fresh air and new energy to come in. Taking care of your home is a practice of self-care.

moving your energy
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And the second best thing you can do is to move yourself. Maybe you already have an hobby that implies movement either indoor or outdoor. But as you did not felt well you stopped doing it. You will feel better after doing some physical activity there are medical studies to prove that, but it also help you at the energy level of your body. When you move even for a short walk you get rid of stagnant energy from your aura. When you have a more intense exercise practice you can change the entire energy of you body and feel like a new person after that.

Have a great day or night and God bless!

Inspiration, Spiritual

Letters from LOVE

RafaelaMihai

Hello, my darling readers,

“Letters from Love” were invented by Elizabeth Gilbert (the author of “Eat, pray, love” and other bestselling books) in order to connect with the love she needed and did not get from outside herself.

You can start your day or end your day by writing in a journal made just for your eyes a letter for yourself from love. In this letter you may write for yourself what you want to hear from a loved one either a partner or a family member but you do not get from them. In these letters you can pour all the love you need to feel in this word but you rarely had it.

I will post here an example of a love letter for myself:

letters from love
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Dear Love -what do you want me to know today? (this is like a title for letter)

Hello, my lovely,

I want you to know that I am here for you always. You felt alone and had a difficult time lately, but you are never alone because I am here always. I am holding you in a tight embrace. You think because you did not have love growing up you can not manifest it. That is not true. As a child of God you are made of love. You are love. So you are a part of me and I am a part of you always. Go into the world and share the love you want and it will come back to you from me.

Kisses and hugs, LOVE!

You may adopt this spiritual practice and emotion regulator as something you can do for yourself any time you need it. It is a very precious self-care practice.

Have a great weekend and God bless!