Into the Depths These Feelings
What could it take
for someone to make
your life an ashen valley
of dead trees,
wildlife forced into factions,
sometimes trusting the raptors
but never the corvids
or believing in the local government seat
to do anything worthwhile?
What is there to say or to refute
when the kindred spirits
of your legal youth trek down trails
of ill-repute and wonder why
they don’t expect more from you?
Richie, here, the drunk
Mia, there, the central figure
Adam, dear, the secret trouble-shooter
Marco, to be fair, still in love with another
Sasha, to be clear, just wants not to bother
being the perfect mother,
friend, confidant, lover.
Into the depths these feelings
of grief or greed make a byronic witch
strike deals, buy more goldfish, trade Miami
for Washington DC
because why exactly?
— yiqi 29 October 2026 10:50 pm
This poem was inspired by the spectacularly beautiful Wildwood (Travis Knight, 2026) and touchingly relatable novel So Old, So Young by Grant Ginder.


Brian Tallerico has put so many of my thoughts into words in his review, so you should read it and learn what I did about the film, such as, it took “15 years and required 136 sets, 231 puppets, and thousands of shots” to make. The most substantial lesson I took from the film is that it’s not a good idea to arrest and exile an alleged witch. I highly, highly recommend watching this film in a theatre. If you’ve liked even two of Laika Studios‘ previous films, you need to see Wildwood and stay through the start of the ending credits for a few snippets of the behind-the-scenes footage. Here’s more if you’re interested in how they did the stop-motion.
So Old, So Young isn’t necessarily the kind of novel I’d have found on my own because it’s general fiction, and I’ve been more preoccupied with horror, fantasy, nonfiction, and military history in recent years. Even the non-fantasy fiction books I’ve loved (Darius the Great Is Not Okay, As Long As the Lemon Trees Grow, The Stationery Shop, Stoner, and Train Dreams) aren’t quite the same general fiction as Grant Ginder’s book. The owner of Prelude Bookstore in Funwoody suggested So Old, So Young to me as I had a very particular premise request, and it delivered not only as a reading experience but also as a cinematic one in my mind’s eye, recalling the mise-en-scene of Whit Stillman, Noah Baumbach, and Richard Linklater films.
The book follows a group of friends from college (Mia, Marco, Richie, Adam, and Sasha) through their forties. It’s divided into six occasions from 2007 through 2024.
I. London Spring of 2024
II. NYC NYE 2007
III. Cancun summer 2014
IV. Upstate NY Labor Day 2018
V. Halloween NJ 2022
VI. NYC Spring 2024
Although each of the characters get their own chapters through most of the sections via a third-person omniscient narrator, Mia has the most time with the reader. I’m not sure I know her better than her friends, though, because she’s assessing them more than they are her.
Pic creds: IMDB, Goodreads








