DNI (Do Not Invite) List 2025
The DNI List is a list consisting of individuals who would NOT be allowed to attend phi mu events such as date parties, formals, mixers (with other orgs) and etc. The DNI list is a list that should be taken with upmost seriousness, in where individuals on the list present a valid reasonable safety concern towards our members and the chapter. The form request will be evaluated but will remain confidential. 

Valid safety concerns: 
  • Physical harm including sexual assault and violence 
  • Inappropriate behavior like aggression, intimidation, manipulation and coercion 
  • Inappropriate comments that violate the safety and well-being of others such as racism, homophobia and etc.
  • Harassment (verbal/visual/online/physical/emotional)
  • In addition, morally "grey" areas (ex: boundary violations) will also be a valid reason but state the situation in the response down below. 
  • If you are unsure of the criteria for DNI, contact Manahil Asad (masad@wm.edu)
Examples of non-valid reasons: 
  • Breakups that do not violate the safety of others. Not wanting to see an ex with other members.
  • Friendship Breakups (falling outs with others)
  • You don't like the "vibes" of the individual 
  • Arguments or tensions that do not present a safety concern. "Beef" 
  • Rejection from individual 
  • A single honest mistake (ex: accidently bumping into a person)
  • Rumors without evidence 
  • Immaturity without malice 
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Your First and Last Name  *
Name of individual to be put on DNI (First, Last Name) *
Are there any organizations that you know that the individual participates in. If we have events with those organizations, we can make sure the individual isn't present.  *
The concern and situation with the individual  *
If you need help, confide in a trusted individual  and/or some of the hotlines and resources below. You are loved and important.
  • William and Mary counseling (757-221-3620)
  • TalkNow 24/7 on-demand emotional support through TimelyCare that connects W&M students with a mental health professional
  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (call or text 988)
  • Crisis Text Line (text HOME to 741741)
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline (800-799-7233 or text START to 88788)
  • RAINN Sexual Assault Hotline (800-656-4673)
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