If I save money some expense will come up where I need to spend it.. like the car that we barely get to use needs gas, or to be reregistered, or the insurance is due. Or chas needs money for this or that.. And all of the sudden, the 150 dollars I try to put away is down to 20.

the food gale buys with the 60 dollars a week Chas, Robbin and I give her is gross and all dinner food.. If I, buy my own food, food that I like, and if I don't share all of it with everyone in the house then I'm selfish. How am I selfish if I go out and spend 80 dollars on groceries for me and chas and then I don't want to share everything with everyone else... for example, I bought ice cream. Low fat, low calorie ice cream that everyone said they hated, and I have one bowl I go back 3 days later, there's not even enough for another bowl... ugh.

And please tell me how I can pour over 500 dollars into a car.. And then be told that I have no respect for gale when were gone for 3 hours doing things we needed to do... and then have her take the car keys away and say we can't drive it. Yeah she lets us use it for work, that's it. And I'm still expected to put gas in it all the time when I'm not the one who needs it? But I have to do it, otherwise we can't use the car we need to get to and from work.

Someone help me make sense of this, she's driving me up a wall. If I'm wrong, someone tell me.. But I don't feel like I am.