People who think alone and give answers tend not to rely on others

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Well, today I'm going to talk about "people who think and answer alone tend not to rely on others".

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Well, everyone.

Do you think on your own when something comes up with a problem, issue, or worry?

Or are you a person who consults with others immediately?

Which one is it?

However, it's not about which one is correct and which is incorrect, and depending on the case-by-case, both are options that will be correct, but in fact, you will think about everything yourself and even give an answer. And you will become a constitution that you can't try to borrow the help of others.

Because please think about it carefully.

You'll think about it by yourself and come up with the answer, right?

Some people will come out, or rather, some people will come out, but even if it's forced.

It's good when you still think alone and don't get an answer as a result.

If you don't rely on someone, you can't find the answer.

In that case, the only difference is whether you rely on others immediately or later.

However, it certainly feels good to be able to tackle the problem on your own and solve it.

Pleasure substances flow through the body.

Moreover, you can accumulate successful experiences, so "I'm amazing!" Oh, the sense of self-affirmation and self-efficacy will also increase.

Moreover, first of all, your specs will definitely increase.

I tend to have the illusion that only relatively good things happen.

But, please think about it carefully.

I rely only on myself.

As for what side effects will occur if that happens, of course, it is always one horsepower, so it will puncture one day.

Of course.

Because I will undertake everything by myself.

In the first place, the scope of what you can do alone is limited, isn't it?

It's not an Android or a robot, so it doesn't always mean that you can take high-quality actions with high specifications.

Everyone is a living person.

Fatigue accumulates, stress accumulates, sometimes I'm not feeling well, sometimes things go well and sometimes I don't, and that's people, right?

I've been able to do it alone for a long time, so there are people who will replace it with obsessions at some point.

There are many people who continue to be patient because they want to be thought of as people who can do anything to meet the expectations of those around them, and there are many people who can't say "it's impossible" or "it's the limit".

This is the worst side effect.

If you do something like this, there's nothing but to destroy yourself, right?

If you keep yourself busy, you won't know what you're doing the task for and who you're doing it for.

Because I'm doing things that break myself.

So, when I break down, the people around me leave.

At first, I was worried and said, "Are you okay?" And so on, but even so, the moment they find out that they don't come back for a while, and there's no possibility of returning, everyone tends to leave that person.

When it's a company, the stance is that "there are many changes".

In fact, there are many substitutes for office workers, and it is the current school system to create military-style office workers.

Well, I got a little unnecessary thing, but in the end, if I give all the answers by myself and proceed with things selfishly, eventually that stereotype will stick to my head, and I have to do everything myself, everything by myself If I have to be able to do it, it becomes a form of self-suggestion, so I can't rely on others.

So how was it?

Today's story.

It's certainly a good thing to be able to do it yourself, and I think everyone has been educated to "do your own thing yourself" since you were a child, but if it goes too far, a ridiculous twist is waiting for you this time. It was a story called Suyo.

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