#いまあなたに伝えたいこと(14) 理不尽や誤解に直面したときの沈黙の力ー偏見や噂、誤解に揺さぶられながらも、冷静さと行動で自分を守る経験　(英語版) The Power of Silence in the Face of Unfairness and Misunderstanding

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Protecting oneself with calmness and action amid prejudice, rumors, and misunderstandings

Throughout my career as a teacher and in everyday life, I have repeatedly faced misunderstandings, prejudice, and unfair treatment. Early in my teaching career, being a woman and engaging in uncommon tests or new teaching methods sometimes provoked resistance or misunderstandings from colleagues. These experiences ranged from bias regarding class performance and project initiatives, to cold stares after returning from illness leave, to misunderstandings about my work in a commercial high school.

Even at the gym, minor actions could give rise to misunderstandings or rumors, which occasionally disturbed my peace of mind. Yet, I chose not to react emotionally but to respond calmly and consistently through my actions and conduct. I understood that misunderstandings and prejudice are the problem of others and do not diminish my own value or efforts. When necessary, I apologized or explained politely, but I avoided engaging in disputes or arguing.

From these experiences, I have learned the importance of maintaining calmness and demonstrating through one’s actions when faced with unfairness or misunderstanding. Remaining silent and composed often serves better than raising one’s voice, protecting oneself and preventing the situation from worsening over the long term. Misunderstandings and prejudice cannot be entirely avoided, but how one responds is a matter of personal choice, and maintaining inner calm is of utmost importance.


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