30 Days and Counting

Okay, if any of you out there still read this blog, despite my inability to update it, I would like you to help us out. We have a pool going to see who can most accurately predict the birth date and size of our baby. Go to the following website, http://www.expectnet.com/games/FurstBourneButler, and enter your prediction! (Thanks Jen for showing us this website when you had your baby.) More recent ultrasounds and shower pictures to be posted soon.

"Furst Bourne" Butler

I think all of you who read this blog are already aware of our great news, but we are expecting. Our first born is due on July 24, 2009. I figured it was about time we started posting pregnancy updates here on our blog.

Here Joey and I are on the day our little one was conceived. As you can see these aren't X-rated photos. We did have a little help from modern medicine. The doctors helped my body to produce an egg and then they gave Joey's swimmers a little head start. Joey didn't have much to do that day, except provide a sample, but he tried hard to pretend he was a part of everything going on.

This was our first ultrasound taken to confirm our pregnancy. I was about 6 1/2 weeks along at this time. We saw the heart beating and were able to hear the heartbeat too. Nothing could have been better! The doctor told us the heart we were watching and listening to had only started beating sometime within the last 24-48 hours. So amazing!!!

This ultrasound was taken on Christmas Eve, when I was almost 10 weeks along. We considered them to be one of our best Christmas presents. Unfortunately, the reason we needed to have the ultrasound was a little frightening. I was having some spotting. It turns out the spotting was something completely normal, but being 1st time parents-to-be, we completely panicked. The baby seemed as excited to see us as we were to see it. Its newly formed arm wouldn't stop waving to us. Then, it stuck both of its feet right in the way of the ultrasound and we had the chance to count all ten little toes. You can count them yourself in the ultrasound below. It is my favorite ultrasound so far.
Overall, I would have to say I've had a great pregancy so far. (Knock on wood.) Our fertility treatments worked the first go round. I skipped the morning sickness or anytime of sickness stuff. Other than the spotting and some nasty headaches, there haven't been any problems. We keep praying that it will stay that way.

Joey is going to be a great daddy. He gets giddy everytime he thinks about us having a baby. He has been great to get me whatever I am craving, from Arby's to Thin Mint icecream to gummy candy. At his work, our baby has been dubbed "the shop baby." Everyone feels like they are the auntie or uncle of the baby. Joe's friends, all of whom are single or at least not married yet, all want to have a shower for the baby. It's a good thing one of their girlfriends took over the planning for the shower. We may have ended up playing "Rock Band" or some other video game as the shower games. Just kidding, they are all nice guys and it is really cute to see everyone around us so excited for us.

Well, I will do my best to keep you all updated on the condition of mommy and baby (and daddy). Below is our most recent ultrasound of the baby. It was taken at about 12 weeks.

Jake and Sabrina

Well, the posting on this wedding isn't quite as late as the other wedding I blogged about a few days ago. Jake (my brother) and Sabrina (my new sister!) haven't even celebrated their one month anniversary yet. This wedding was in Las Vegas and we had a wonderful time. The wedding was absolutely beautiful and we really enjoyed the time away from work and our regular life. The day we arrived in Vegas was also Joey's birthday. He had a day of great food. He got to eat one of his all time favorite desserts, Chili's white chocolate lava cake, shortly after arriving in Vegas. Later that night our family met Sabrina's family for the first time at the buffet at Mandalay Bay. I've found it is hard to go wrong at the buffets in the big casinos. After dinner, Joey, my brothers Daniel and Jesse, and myself all went out to wander the strip. It was soooo windy and cold that we didn't get very far. We did see some of our favorite stores, the Coca-Cola store and the M&M's store. We tried to see the water shows at the Bellagio, but they must have been over for the evening or canceled because of the wind.The day of the wedding my family all went to IHOP for breakfast. Jon and Dan were Jake's best men and were supposed to give a toast that evening at dinner. They still weren't sure what they were going to say. It had been mentioned that they should do a rap since Daniel is a beatboxer and noisemaker extraordinaire. I think everyone at IHOP must have thought we were insane as this family of white folk sat around rhyming, reminiscing, and "rapping." Jon had to dig deep, REAL DEEP, to find his inner "ghetto side" but in the end did a fantastic job with the rap, along with his most righteous beatboxer. The whole audience was in stitches, no one expected those two to rap. If you want to see a video of it check out Jon's blog. http://web.me.com/kibourne/BourneWeb/Blog/Entries/2008/10/18_Jonathon_%26_Daniel%E2%80%99s_Toast.html

The ceremony took place in The Wedding Chapel at The Mandalay Bay. It was a beautiful ceremony with immediate family and close friends present. I have never seen a couple be so calm on their wedding day (or the days leading up to it) as Jake and Sabrina were. They make each other so happy and it is great to see my little brother Jakey with someone as wonderful as Sabrina. Just look at his face when he saw his beautiful bride at the end of the aisle.

After the ceremony and another amazing Vegas dinner at the reception, we hit the strip again. We were determined to see the water shows at the Bellagio, our favorite thing in Vegas. They were running that night and we braved the extremely cold wind to watch two or three of the water shows. (I would include a video, but my cinematic skills tend to make people sea sick.) I absolutely love the Bellagio. It is my favorite casino. There are flowers all over on the inside. They have vases of fresh flowers everywhere. The ceiling in the entrance is covered in spun glass flowers. And they have a seasonal flower garden indoors! The wedding was in October so it was kind of a harvest theme for the garden. We have also seen the garden around Mother's Day and the whole garden was filled with my favorite flowers, tulips. It was breathtaking.

Jake and Sabrina, congratulations. May your future be filled with tomorrows as happy as this day was.

Our afternoon at the fair

Fairs bring a bit of nostalgia for the "good ol' days" when neighbor competed against neighbor in friendly competition to simply be the talk of the town. I wish we could go back to those simpler times. Joey and I visited the "simpler times" for a few hours when we visited the Southern California Fair. We have fair grounds less than ten miles from our home and we took advantage of that.

It was small as far as fairs go but it had most of the necessary components--rides, games, food, displays, live country music, and animals. Much to our dismay, the fair was missing one major component, fried food. We searched high and low for a fried Pop Tart or Snickers, we would have settled for a fried Twinkie. But, alas we could only find fried chicken and an assortment of fried vegetables, BORING. We walked through a tent where local high school students competed in their landscaping skills. Yet another tent was filled with art work, photos, needle work, quilts, and handmade clothing items. There were the typical 4H and FFA farm animal competitions. The high schools from my school district had sheep, pigs, and various other livestock in the competition.

The sheep provided one of our most memorable events at the fair. Joey was baaaahing at all the sheep and one of them really took offense to this. It angrily baaaaahed back. That was one grumpy sheep. We had a wonderful date night laughing and walking together, wishing today's society would go back to those good ol' days. Here are some of our goofy moments, including Joey trying to fight the angry sheep.

Bethanee and Brian

Okay, so this post is only two and a half months late, but as I always tell my students, "turning in late work and getting some points is always better than turning in no work at all and getting no points." So Bethanee and Brian, thanks for having us be a part of your special day. We had a wonderful time visiting all of our family in Utah. We did a salon day for all of the brides maids that were in town and Joey and Jesse tagged along. (They enjoyed the salon day as much as the rest of us if not more even though they would never admit it. Look at the pictures and you will see what I mean.) The girls all got haircuts and a manicure. Some even colored their hair. Joey and Jesse got haircuts and then Joey proceeded to get a scalp treatment, have his face shaved, his hands manicured, and even his eyebrows waxed. I think he had more done than the rest of us. (**Joey's insert: "And DANG did I look purty.") I decided it was time for a new look and cut several inches off my hair, layered it, and added bangs again for the first time in 10 years. Thanks Gina for setting up all of those appointments for us at Bon Losee and taking care of us while we were there!!!

The groomsmen all had their night to play and get together as well. After preparing the veggies and food for the ceremony the next day, they all went out bowling. They reported having a great time, but didn't take a camera so we don't have proof of it.

Some of the week before the wedding is all a blur because I spent much of the week sleep deprived. We left two days early and drove to Utah overnight, without sleeping, to surprise Joey's mom. Then we stayed up all day visiting with family. There were also a few nights with little to literally no sleep as my mom and I worked to complete the custom made bridesmaid dresses for EIGHT bridesmaids. (See two of the dresses in the picture below.) In the end, we finished all of them, except my top. But we decided that as the maid-of-honor, it was okay that my outfit was a little different.

The ceremony and reception were beautiful. The lucky couple couldn't take their eyes off each other and the smiles could not be wiped off their faces. Welcome to the family, Brian. Congratulations you two and best wishes for your lives together.

Get your Kicks at Route 66

One of the largest car shows in our area was last weekend. The car show is called "Route 66." Joey was in heaven. The car show lasts all weekend fills several city blocks in downtown San Bernadino. We walk for hours and still don't see all the cars. It is a good thing that the cars don't always stay parked in their spots. The cars can also cruise around the streets of the car shows, showing off. One could be deaf after a pack of muscle cars drive by, all reving their engines. The cars with hydrolics turned the corners on three wheels. And my oh my, all that polished chrome and those snazzy paint jobs made it impossible to pick a favorite. Here are just a few of the beauties that we saw.

A new way of paying teachers

One of my fellow teachers sent this to me in an email. It was very interesting and I am all for it. Take a look.

Are you sick of high paid teachers? Teachers' hefty salaries are driving up taxes, and they only work 9 or 10 months a year! It's time we put things in perspective and pay them for what they do - baby sit!

We can get that for less than minimum wage. That's right. Let's give them $3.00 an hour and only the hours they worked; not any of that silly planning time, or any time they spend before or after school.That would be $19.50 a day (7:45 to 3:00 PM with 45 min. off for lunch and planning -- that equals 6 1/2 hours). Each parent should pay $19.50 a day for these teachers to baby-sit their children.

Now how many do they teach in day...maybe 30? So that's $19.50 x 30 = $585.00 a day. However, remember they only work 180 days a year!!! I am not going to pay them for any vacations. LET'S SEE.... That's $585 X 180= $105,300 per year. (Hold on! My calculator needs new batteries).

What about those special education teachers and the ones with Master's degrees? Well, we could pay them minimum wage($7.75), and just to be fair, round it off to $8.00 an hour. That would be $8 X 6 1/2 hours X 30 children X 180 days =$280,800 per year.

Wait a minute -- there's something wrong here!There sure is! The average teacher's salary (nation wide) is $50,000. $50,000/180 days = $277.77/per day/30students=$9.25/6.5 hours = $1.42 per hour per student --a very inexpensive baby-sitter and they even EDUCATE your kids!) WHAT A DEAL....

I wouldn't mind this new pay schedule, a six-figure salary for teaching! What do all of you think?