Thursday, April 16, 2009

Holding up our lights...

Arabian Lights - Girls Camp 2009
...therefore hold up your light that it may shine unto the world..."

This is what I have been working on for the past few weeks. We had our camp in Dhahran over the weekend and it was great! We had some amazing experiences during this camp and I am so glad we did it. It took me a week to mentally recover (as for the physical recovery - I still have the remnants of my sunburn), but after looking at the slide show and the pictures I have, I just feel such a great love for these girls - who they are and what they stand for. The light they have shines in their eyes and through their countenances. What a blessing to be able to lead them...especially because my two lovely daughters are part of the group. I just love them to pieces! I wish there were more opportunities to get the girls all together.

My wonderful husband and sons joined us in this camping adventure, too... I can't say how grateful I am for a family that supports all my hair-brained ideas. You guys are awesome. Notice the tshirts - thanks to Emma and Linda for spending hours ironing and peeling the iron-on labels. They were just amazing. I am so grateful that girls camp only comes once a year. I don't have the energy I used to!

Arabian Lights - April 2009 - Dhahran






SHUKRAN, Kristy, for putting this slide show together!

Friday, February 20, 2009

INSHALLAH

Insha'Allah (in sha' luh) - Arabic. 1) God willing; 2) hopefully; 3) I have no idea; 4) if God really wants this to happen, He will possess my body to make me do it...otherwise there's a snowball's chance in Riyadh it's going to happen.


This is an important word in the Arab world. It follows any sentence...any promise of goods to be delivered, fixed, or services to be given and must be said. Some examples:

(of definition #1 or 2)

Obstetrician: "The baby will come in the next week, inshallah."

(of definition #3)
Customer: "Do you know when you will have chocolate chips in stock?
I can't find them in any stores right now."

Vendor: "Inshallah, they will be here next week."

OR (definition #4)

Friend #1: "Will you be able to help with the PTSA fundraiser on Thursday?"

Friend #2: "I will come, inshallah."

Another word that accompanies "inshallah" is "bukra" (boo' kara) which means tomorrow in Arabic. Many times, the answer to an inquiry is "Bukra inshallah..." or "Hopefully, tomorrow." Now this means that your chances of having whatever done tomorrow are slim to none. More often, if you hear this it means you're in for a long wait. An example of this:

Tenant: "So when will the chair from my villa be fixed?"

Maintenance: "Bukra, inshallah."

Note: I still have yet to see the chair that left my villa to be fixed in December 2008...



Thursday, February 19, 2009

The Saudi Boot

My sister calls it the Saudi boot ~ we'll be chatting online and then suddenly, I'm not online anymore...booted off...just to come back on in another 30 seconds...and then repeat the process over and over again. Can we say frustrating?! Due to the dreaded boot, I missed my sisters this morning... just want you to know I would have joined your chat if I could have! :) Love you both!!!

Internet service here in my compound leaves much to be desired...I never know if it will be up and working. Today I had the tech guy come and fix it though, so *inshallah* it will work better from now on. I have friends who use the service from their cable companies, but our sponsor has just switched to compound internet service. It's better than satellite though...the dust here is crazy this time of year and sometimes it interferes with the signal. That can mean days without internet...I don't know that I could have survived being this far away from home without it. I LOVE technology, especially when it works correctly!

Monday, February 16, 2009

Turning over a new leaf...

So today while I was in a book club meeting, it occurred to me that I need to chronicle my time here in Saudi a little better. I've gotten so used to life here that it seems very common, but I think that sharing my perspective with family and friends could possibly be of value to someone, somewhere...maybe.

Today there is news about the shakeup in the government regarding a woman put in the position of Deputy Minister of Education - specifically over woman's education. That is huge...first woman in a ministry position. I know several people that think the Saudis are behind the times, but for a country that is still under 100 years old, this is progress. Good for you, King Abdullah! The King also let the head of the Muttawa go - in favor of someone who might be a little less "iron-fisted." Maybe next year red roses will be allowed during February. :)

Life here is both interesting - I can sit down to a luncheon with 10 women all of different nationalities and different points of view, as well as tedious...I hate having to hire a driver to go to the neighboring compound just around the corner. I also have to ride a bus to do the grocery shopping (or any shopping) and everything closes several times a day for prayer...ugh! Last Wednesday, I had to run all over between two neighboring malls trying to get what I needed in the 2 hours we were at the mall. What a workout! The only positive part of this is that it forces me to organize myself and plan out my shopping for the month when the bus schedule comes out. Monday - IKEA, Tuesday - Tamimi (Safeway), etc.


While it's not illegal to BE a Christian here, it is illegal to go to church. I miss that... a lot. We have friends who we visit with though who are also Christian and we keep each other company. I guess that will have to do for now. There's something about sharing a culture and religion here that causes us to become a tighter knit community. I went to the quilt guild for the first time last night and I knew almost half the women there from one place or another.

Well, Elijah has run out of patience with me on the computer but at least I got something written. My goal is to write every few days about something different...the weather (DUSTY), golf, compound life, trips...just life in general here in the Saudi Sandbox. Living here has given me patience and perspective and I am very grateful for that. I hope it comes across as I continue to write, although I know some days I may share more of my frustrations than my growth.

Sunday, June 01, 2008

March 2008

I am way behind on my goal to publish something every month…and since I am leaving my computer for the summer to visit family in the States, I decided I should summarize our last few months. They were quite busy.

Janadiryah

In the month of March, we had some fun. I was very busy helping organize the International Festival with the PTSA, so I didn’t do much outside of school. One thing I did do, however, was make it to Janadiryah…the Saudi national festival. Families cannot attend this festival together, so there are women’s days and men’s days. Jacob was not able to come with us because he is in the “man” category now that he’s almost as tall as Jim. However, Emma, Naomi and Joseph came along with me, my friend, Angela, her two girls and her maid, Fiodi, who spoke Arabic (very useful!)

As we came into the festival, the muttawa were right there at the entrance, making sure that everyone was covered (remember, this was women’s day – but we still had to cover…) Emma had forgotten her scarf, so we all decided to purchase (get this) COWBOY HATS that everyone was selling/buying in the parking lot. It was kind of funny, because you would have these women who were totally covered…face, hair, everything, and then they have a cowboy hat on their heads. I wish I could have taken pictures. We got by the muttawa (barely – they said Emma’s hair wasn’t covered well enough but I just pretended I didn’t hear them) and into the fair grounds. Once we got past the front gates, the atmosphere was very different. There were vendors sitting on the ground, lining the main thoroughfare selling all sorts of things…dresses for little girls, drums (of course Joseph got one of those), little finger cymbals, stuffed animals, fake jewelry…just anything you could think of. (Side note: it was the first time that I ever saw a woman breastfeeding her baby in public here…of course her face and hair were covered and she was wearing her abaya – her breast was the only thing showing! I have to say that I was happy to see that babies are well fed in Saudi Arabia.) As we passed further into the festival, it seemed that the women became a little more relaxed. Face veils were taken off sometimes, and some rebellious young women even took off the veils covering their hair and opened up their abayas so their clothing was showing. We were surprised, because as soon as we got out of reach of the muttawa, women would stop us and tell us “Welcome to Saudi Arabia.” Some didn’t speak English very well, but everyone was extremely friendly toward us – even though we were unveiled, blonde Westerners.

We watched a camel grinding sesame seeds into sesame oil, and a basket weaver, too. A lot of the women/girls had circlets of flowers in their hair, so we bought the little girls some of those. We came to a tower, and inside the tower were women and girls who were without their abayas in traditional dress. The little girls were colorfully dressed, and sang us a sweet little “welcome” song in Arabic. We asked to take their picture, but were told that we could not. The funny thing was that after we were told we could not take pictures of the girls in traditional dress, the same women asked to take pictures of Angela’s daughter. Angela’s youngest daughter (who is so cute and very blonde) was very sought after for pictures…we had women lining up to take her picture everywhere we went! Poor little girl, we had to protect her from all the hands that tried to pinch her cheeks and get her attention…she was like a celebrity! After the tower, we let the little ones play a little and took some pictures with them.

The tastiest thing we did was go into the tent where they showed how to make some traditional sweets. They would make a little round pita type bread and then cover it in sugar and cinnamon and bake it in this tiny little oven, over hot coals. They were quite yummy! We also went inside the marketplace where they sold honey, traditional clothing, baskets, sweets, coffee and tea, and tobacco (some of it was herbal tobacco for the houka pipes or the “hubbly bubbly.”) Have I ever mentioned that Arabs don’t believe in getting in lines? Everyone just pushes to get where they want to go…this applies to traffic, and marketplaces…we were lucky to get out of there with all the children.

Anyhow, Janadiryah was a really fun afternoon (although it was hot – next year I’ll remember to go in the morning!)

International Festival

Our next activity for March was the International Festival – a very large festival at the children's school where over 40 countries create a country exhibit. This year, yours truly volunteered (never again, by the way) to oversee the exhibit for the U.S. in addition to doing the publicity for the event as the Publicity Chair of the PTSA’s Executive Council. Somehow, even though I said I would not do the International Festival, I ended up being on the Festival committee anyways. (I need to improve my “NO” skills.) We couldn’t’ have done the booth without my good friends, Stephanie and Lolly. (Stephanie has taken on the title of “Joanne’s common sense” because without her, I say “yes” too easily.) We did this last year with only two week’s notice and it was hard work but we were told that no one had ever gone to this much effort for America’s booth before and they really appreciated it, so this year we felt kind of obligated. Booz Allen Hamilton sponsored us again (thank goodness!) and we were able to do some fun things. Our theme was “Road Trip Across America” and we purchased these huge pictures of some things you might see if you took a road trip across America…NY Times Square, Mount Rushmore, and Mann’s Chinese Theater in Hollywood that everyone could take their picture in front of. Our kids then made the flags of all 50 states, and we had some posters of sights from all parts of the country. The US Embassy also helped us by providing pins to give out as well as pamphlets from the national park service. One young Saudi couple who were engaged talked about going to Zion’s national park on their honeymoon, they loved the pictures so much. It was fun, but busy and we have all decided we are going to pass this opportunity to someone else next year. :)

Saturday, February 23, 2008

February 2008 Highlights

As you may notice from the picture above, Valentines Day is not practiced in Saudi Arabia.


So this Valentines Day, we took a trip with some friends to Bahrain. Joseph and Naomi stayed home with some friends while we took the older two and some other friends with us. (Let me take a moment to say that traveling without the younger two was like heaven - it was peaceful!) We had so much fun while there...the kids did some team building activities together in the morning, we made 580 school kits for children in Iraq by 1:30 pm, and then we went bowling and ice skating for a few hours later that afternoon.


The highlight of my day, however, was the youth dance that evening. I knew the words to almost all of the music! It was all 80's music....I guess that's the last time they made good, clean dance music! ;) My friend, Joy (who I went to high school with in the States) and I were having a lot of fun - we danced to this stuff 20 years ago together!
Although Jacob, Jim and I were having a great time, it took two hours to get Emma onto the dance floor. Finally, a sweet guy named Max was able to get her to slow dance with him after encouraging her for only a few minutes. I think he made her feel comfortable, because after those dances she would dance the faster songs with her friends and I think she realized that it was fun to make a fool of yourself out on the dance floor. (Perhaps she had seen Jim and I dancing earlier and was secretly embarrassed to think she might look like us...) Jacob was even chosen to compete in the dance competition (with his kung fu arms - ask him to do that move for you when you see him this summer!) He was on the dance floor the entire three hours...I even got a slow dance with him. I had such a great time, and I can't remember the last time I danced like that (I think it might have been the first time I danced while pregnant!)

The time in Bahrain was just really wonderful, and we enjoyed the testimonies that were shared on Friday at the end of the trip. The 11 hours it took in travel time in three days was worth all the good, clean fun we had while we were there. We can't wait for next year!