Now that I have over a thousand posts, here are the top ones as seen from different points of view:
The most visited posts on this blog:
- Toccara Jones
- thick black women
- The most beautiful black women
- Angel Lola Luv
- Bria Myles
- The most beautiful black women models
- Vilayna Lasalle
- The most beautiful black actresses
- The most beautiful black Brazilian women
- Jill Marie Jones
Those with the most comments:
- thick black women
- white people
- The most beautiful black women
- The most beautiful black Brazilian women
- The most beautiful black women according to white people
- Why so few white men marry black women
- What white people should know
- Why whites are blind to their racism
- race and beauty
- Creoles
- black women are beautiful
- The most beautiful Nigerian actresses
- Henry Louis Wallace
- black father, white mother
- Why I love thick women
- black women that white men like
- How white people think
- Hey You Feministe
- All blacks are racist
- white privilege
The most influential (according to the Technorati ratings of blogs that link to them):
- thick black women
- Why whites are blind to their racism
- Stereotypes about black women
- Sapphire stereotype
- 1040 Fifth Avenue: Where Jackie O. lived
- Home
- Racism Vision Test
- colour-blind racism
- Lisa Bonet
- black brute stereotype
The ones I like best or visit the most:
- category: music
- style guide: troublesome words
- Orwell: How to make a nice cup of tea
- acceptable blackness
- There is absolutely nothing wrong with being black
- style guide: Oxford spelling
- black women are beautiful
- Suggestions
- race and beauty
- Getting off the W train at 42nd street
- Uptown
- The best American writers live north of 110th Street
- In defence of Michelle Obama
- category: marriage
- Reading Betsey Brown
- jihad
- Wahhabis
- Stephen King on becoming a good writer
- A Guide to Turks
- The Abagond Library
- Monticello
- crowns
- classic prose style
- Dominick Dunne
- Burma or Myanmar?
- The Ford
- Like turning 14 all over again
As you can tell from the last list, I write about all kinds of things – yet only certain kinds of posts get much attention:
- Those that get linked to by more important blogs (at least as Technorati measures it) tend to be about race.
- Those that get the most hits tend to be about beautiful black women, particularly of the video vixen sort – even though I have written about other sorts of black women and even white women too.
- Those that get the most comments tend to be in between: they are mostly about race or black beauty or both.
What seems to drive most of the comments:
- I think most white Americans are racist.
- I like thick women over thin or fat ones (all things being equal, of course).
Both go against mainstream American ideas of whites as colour-blind and thin women as the most beautiful. It seems that whites are blind, not to colour, but to their own racism, while thin women want to be wanted not just by most men, but all men.
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Abagond 
Your top ten most visited posts just goes to show, yet again, that there’s great demand to see more beautiful black women.
It’s no surprise that your posts on race and women get the most hits. This is America, race drives everything. Yet, it’s something that’s rarely discussed in public. So the internet gives folks a nice, anonymous forum to say what they really want to say.
I admit, I found this blog when I was searching for Afro-Latino women, I believe. I got linked to your post about the “most beautiful black Brazilian women”. After that, I started reading your provocative opinions about race and let’s say, I was hooked! Your posts really provoke commentary. I usually don’t post comments on blogs of people I don’t personally know but this blog is a rare and good exception.
Also, your posts on writing and writers is quite fascinating. I’m a writer myself, so a lot of stuff is common knowledge to me but still, I learn things that I did not know before.
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Do you believe white people are completely responsible for all racism as a culture?
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Most but not all of the racism in American society.
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mynameismyname: If someone else had written this blog instead of me, I know I would found it by now and in just the same way: the women.
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I found your blog searching for a definition on Thick Women vs. Fat or BBWs. How vain and silly am I. My self Image is one of a women who is larger than other women of my race. Not fatter per say but broader shoulders – wider hips – taller…thicker – bigger. My Sister and I tower over most of our friends…In our vegas pictures you see a group of girls with their two body guards on the ends. My husband and men in clubes or on the street would tell me I was thick – and I thick I am fat. I was not sure what the heck thick ment. I was looking for clarity to a matter that I am ashamed to admit I spend way to much time thinking about.
I teach my sons that the exterior doesnt matter…that how ne treats people is what matters…I wish I could practice towards myself what I preach. Beauty and Looks fade – but your soul is what lasts…and yet I panic when I see myself reflected in a window and preen and primp in the mirror constantly. I am a failure at upholding something that I feel to be most important.
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At first I assumed the women on my blog would only appeal to men, but women come here for them too, though with other things in mind, like you.
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