...the spice of life!
If any of my friends are also friends with alildragonlover, you will see from her recent posts that we are having a family drama enacted right now. I guess that the reason my children get along with each other so well now that they're adults is they each have a separate area of geography to call their own: one in New England, one in Central Atlantic, one in Northern Midwest, one in the Deep South and one now in Switzerland. I try not to rock that boat too often because we all have a 'high drama' streak and some of us appear docile usually but have hidden fangs.
The current bones of contention are my surgery and my Swiss daughter's dog (who had to be left behind with me temporarily). If I have my surgery in my home city in Central Florida, I have no close friends or relatives to help me through the recovery period. My choices were to take myself to the Pacific Northwest and stay with parents or a sib (along with my dog and 2 cats) but that would put me too far away from my youngest, who is expecting in April; or to stay with my youngest son's family with him, his wife and his two very intellegent, very active preschoolers; or to stay with my pregnant youngest daughter so we can help each other for the next couple of months or three. The last option is, IMHO, the best one because it would be a mutually helpful situation. The dog is the only fly in the ointment. Last night I called her and told her that Harri would either be put in a kennel for the times when there were too many people around (when she acts like a ten-month-old dog instead of the 10 yr old dog she is). If that doesn't work, there are 'cabins' on base that can be rented for vacation stays. They are furnished with everything needed - furniture, bedding, pots, dishes, etc. and are usually very reasonable - charges are based on the military rank of the renter.
Any of that would work. I just want everyone to be happy and okay with each other!
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