"Well, I have some input here.

I want to talk about my ex-girlfriend. When I met her, I thought she was the most awesome person. She wasn’t the most attractive (yet she wasn’t ugly - she was cute) and I didn’t know about her mental issues, but over-all she was awesome!

Now fast forward 2 years. We lived 2 hours apart. And if we had a chance to dress up a little bit and go out - wait - if we were to go out at all… she would spend a lot of time contemplating what clothes fit her. And she would soon get angry because her clothes didn’t fit. Then she would throw a fit calling herself fat and start crying. This puts me in an awkward position. It’s the position where no matter what you say, it will be wrong. And if you don’t say anything, that will be even worse.

I’ve made the remark that if she wants to lose weight, she needs to do something about it. Heck, she even paid for a gym membership but never went. She would come up with every excuse in the world why she couldn’t excercise. Her schedule was to work all day, come home and sit in front of her computer all night and not eat healthy or on a regular basis.

Now, I don’t want to be blamed for being a bad person. But in that case, it’s completely up to her to get in shape. I was happy with her the way she was and therefor I didn’t think she had any reason to be mad at me. But she was. She was mad at me because of her own insecurity with her looks and weight. And I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone who was constantly mad at me for reasons that “I” can’t control."

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