feat(remix-dev)!: remove serverBuildDirectory config option

[MichaelDeBoey]

Resubmission of #5703

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create-remix	Major
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@remix-run/cloudflare	Major
@remix-run/cloudflare-pages	Major
@remix-run/cloudflare-workers	Major
@remix-run/css-bundle	Major
@remix-run/deno	Major
@remix-run/eslint-config	Major
@remix-run/express	Major
@remix-run/netlify	Major
@remix-run/node	Major
@remix-run/react	Major
@remix-run/serve	Major
@remix-run/server-runtime	Major
@remix-run/testing	Major
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