Wednesday, December 30, 2009

from the lurker

hello all!

i have been silent for too long....sorry, but i don't have any fun news....which i understand is no excuse. things are good, life is mostly good and simple, this morning i had the feeling of pending doom because things seem too good. dark thought, i know.

we have two little pups staying with us while our landlord is in europe. just watched miles, the 5 pound dog, hump his bed. gross. tonight i have been cruising craigslist for some city living options - very appealing and finding some good options. we had been in the mindset that the city could not offer us everything we need within our price range, but i have been pleasantly surprised. affordable apartments with parking, laundry, dog friendly and a park nearby do exist in this city! i think we will be touring some places this weekend. i'm craving some street noise and walking to shops & restaurants...maybe even walk to work. last night i was waiting for my bus at work and realized that i LOVE that smell of the city. which is basically the smell of pollution. i dig.

ben has been engrossed in his documentary the past couple weeks. its a film about avalanche safety/backcountry skiing. his narrator/partner has been in town twice in the past month working on it 24/7. i have watched it, or some version of it, no less than 50 times. watching it evolve has been impressive and ben has done a great job. makes me think i should get a hobby. now he begins the marketing packet and sending to film festivals. i plan to help find ways of distribution after it hits the film circuit and (cross your fingers) gains some recognition. this was his major project when he was planning on focusing on his own company, talking pictures...but with the way life has happened this past year, it has become the side project. excited to see what comes of it, and so proud that he followed through. at the very least, colorado will love it!

tomorrow night we are going out with some friends in the city to a dinner party. the email exchange around this party has been amazing. seems like everyone is trying to one up each other with the dish they will be bringing. i am bringing a hunk of brie cheese, its too exhausting, and i cannot compete. still excited to ring in the new year!

work goes well for me. i still love what i am doing. today i was forced to be reflective and do my self review. it was interesting to think back to where i was 9 months ago to where i have come today - i was thinking professionally, but it also got me thinking about everything else that has happened over the past year, time flew and i am so happy to be here now.

christmas was a success. johanna is a total freak, just like her mom. (by freak, i mean amazing) her love for heels and all things girly is hilarious. brooke, with another one you will need to step up your girliness, and luke - good luck. mary and friedie were so fun. living close has been a treat for me, and it was apparent in utah. waking up on christmas morning with two little curly heads jumping on your bed with immediate smiles and singing jingle bells is completely satisfying....even if it is 6 am. mom cooked delicious meals, i will never master that chicken salad. i beat the boys at hearts, per usual. had good talks with dad and watched househunters with mom (if you don't watch it, don't start...its on all the time and its awesome). meanwhile ben was here editing the documentary, but it made for another christmas celebration when i returned sunday, and extending christmas is no problem in my book.

i guess i did have things to share. here is a photo of ben and jack....because no post is complete without a picture.

love to all!
abby

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

prescott - It's a Girl!!!

luke, johanna and i just got back from the ultrasound. it was a very exciting wait with the full bladder and the person in front of me running 1/2 hour late. but all went well and the baby appears to be healthy. here are some pics.

lots of love,
the 4 wakefields


Monday, December 28, 2009

More and more and more Eden Christmas

Parting is such sweet sorrow.....
Sean and his babies

Bathtime in the "bubbly" bath


Mary -- not quite in love with sledding
Friedie -- the thrill seeker
SF Schickedanzes

Christmas dinner

Brooke and Luke

Abby and Friedie

Sean and Bridget

Johanna in her new "dress-up" shoes

Cute Johanna!
Abby and Friedie

Christmas morning -- showing Abby her new stuff

Mary checking out her stocking

Friedie and stocking

Abby helping Mary with her new doll clothes...

Friedie with new Christmas doll

Brooke showing Johanna her baby doll -- dressed like Johanna

Christmas overload

Bridget and Friedie discovering Santa gifts

Coming upstairs to see what Santa brought....

Santa's deliveries...

Johanna, the Shoe Queen...

Reading with Grandpa Dick

This is a bit of a marathon blog, but I just have to share the good times we had this past week. It was sad to have everyone physically leave this weekend, but the sweet memories remain.

The pictures pretty much tell the story: we made cookies, did some sightseeing in Ogden, had a birthday open house here on the 23rd, Santa visited, and we just enjoyed each other thoroughly. Dinner preparation was shared -- each family took a couple of nights. From Indian cuisine to Rack of Lamb, we ate well, and the little girls loved sitting at the big table with napkin rings, sparkly juice, and the family blessing on the food each night -- holding hands. It was a 100% delight every day. Bridget was a good sport as we broke lots of food rules for Friedie and Mary :)
Now back in San Francisco I am sure they are on the straight and narrow again.

This morning I am so grateful for the multitudinous blessings that are daily in my life. At the top of the blessing list is each one of you -- I applaud your efforts to forge loving relationships within each of your families. It is a joy to be in your presence.

This week between Christmas and New Year's is always a strange place in time to be....definitely a limbo-esque feeling. I still find it incredible to write 2009, and wow -- 2010??????

Hug your babies, love each other, and prepare for a future of good things. Love, Mom

Sunday, December 27, 2009

More Christmas in Eden...

Ya-Ya and Johanna on December 23
Playing with the Creche from Prague....

Making Christmas Cookies...

The first two days.......

At the park in Ogden with all the little houses to look into...





Snowmen in a cafe.....two opted for ice cream, but their poor friend had hot chili!




In the snow at Ya-Ya's......

Saturday, December 26, 2009