The Bully
What do you do? There's a kid at school that calls Kimball a name every day during lunch. Today it was "Butt-face." Apparently the bully is not in K's class, but Kimball knows him as "Dray-Dray." Then there's a girl in Kimball's class that kicks him under the table. Kimball says,
"She used to be my best friend, and now she is mean to me."
We didn't think we'd have to experience these scenarios so soon. So we find ourselves asking, What is the balance between teaching your child to defend himself vs. turning the other cheek? And is tattling always bad? I mean not when someone is getting hurt. And, how much should we be involved? I mean, how much of this could be conjured up in Kimball's head? He has quite the imagination and takes things pretty personally. Today he said,
"Mom, maybe I should pretend to be Dray-Dray's friend, invite him over for a play-date, and then I can do Karate on him...I'll kick him in the stomach, like this, pow, kachoo,pow, pow, koo, koo, etc."
Don't ever cross Kimball. He is pretty conniving. But at the same time, he has a very sweet-heart, and would never hurt anyone (well, no one other than a certain sibling who might be driving him crazy). Kimball, by virtue of being the big brother, cares for people smaller and younger than himself. He makes friends with those that don't have any. I really am so proud of my sweet boy...but, how do you deal with bullies? Advice please?