alrighty...new york.
so the bus ride over passed without incident. sirena and i just talked and slept...it wasn't until we got into new york that we had a little adventure. we got dropped off in thsi strange area of chinatown, apparently very far from any subway station that would take me to my second cousin's (jarin) place in washington heights...not the best of neighborhoods, but close to the health sciences/medical campus for columbia. anyways, because it was so complicated (when we asked the bus people for directions to the nearest subway, they gave us five different ways to go...all in broken english, also hitting on sirena in the process), we decided to take a taxi to meet up with sirena's friend, and then her friend would direct me to a nearby station. it seemed the bus people also ran a taxi service of sorts (they were asking all the bus passengers if we needed taxis), so we asked them to call us a taxi. big mistake. they waved us to this car that wasn't a real taxi (no meter), we gave the driver the intersection where we're supposed to meet sirena's friend, and he started driving...kinda. he kept on stopping at every intersection, even when it was green (we got honked at a lot), made some turns, then some u-turns. (sirena and i were pretty white-knuckled). finally, he stops at this random intersection, and since he can't speak english, sirena tries to explain to him in chinese where we need to go. after about 15 minutes of arguing (sirena called her friend to try to have him explain where we needed to go, who told her to let him speak to driver...she gave the phone to the driver and they proceeded to have an almost full-out argument ending with sirena's friend telling him he was an idiot), we got out, and after a little bit of wandering, a nice chauffeur (a bunch of them were kinda standing around - i guess waiting to get called to pick up people?) offered to drop us off where we needed to go. so we finally got to where sirena's friend was, and i was on my way, albeit an hour late. the minute i got off the right subway stop, i called my cousin, who directed me to her apartment...also telling me not to be afraid and to watch out for dog poop...at the time, i wasn't quite sure why, but after walking a few blocks down, i understood...but yeah, for the most part, the area looks a bit worse than it actually is. so i finally got in and saw jarin again (i hadn't seen her over a year and a half) and met one of her roommates, eun-jee. i met the other roommate, yoon-jee (no, it wasn't planned...weird coincidence) the next day...
friday, september 5th: it was a beautiful day, clear skies after a week of rain, so jarin and i went to central park and walked around a bit. in the evening, we went back and met up with both of jarin's roommates for dinner at saigon grill (yummy vietnamese food) and drinks at mod (70s decor) and then 3rd floor cafe (korean place). girls night out...it was fun.
saturday, september 6th: another beautiful day. jarin and i met up with iris and dennis for lunch at penang (sound familiar? went there in boston...the pineapple fried rice is excellent) and we got some ice cream before we parted ways (iris had to unpack, having moved the week before; dennis was stressing about studying...he's pretty stressed, but at least he finds the material interesting...what happened to the fun-loving dennis that was always up for trying out new bars and clubs around la? darn law school). jarin and i went shopping...to century 21, this discount department store right across from ground zero...so sad, but i think they were starting construction on the monument, so it didn't seem as desolate. had some problems there, so i didn't get to really take time there...afterwards, we went to soho to meet up with her roommates and do a little shopping, but we ended up having to meet up with my cousin tony (my first cousin, second cousin to jarin) for dinner soon after we got there. he took us to this place called chez assada (sp? - kinda cool...had a little trouble finding it because it wasn't marked) for moroccan food and...why must i always be haunted by this...belly dancing (there's this other moroccan place in la that i went to for a friend's birthday, and there was all this belly dancing, and usually belly dancers in that kind of setting will bring some of the diners up to dance with her. as you know, that's one of my mortal fears...that previous time, there were multiple rounds of belly dancing all night...and everytime she would come back on, i'd tense up and try not to make eye contact). at any rate, at this dinner, we left early, so we only had to endure one round of belly dancing...a lot of people there were pretty eager to go up there, so we were safe, but the belly dancer did tell jarin on her way out of the room that jarin would have been next...though i don't think jarin would have minded all that much. after dinner, we went to slate, this pretty nice pool hall. we played cut-throat...i was really rusty, but i still managed to win one of the games. (tony won the other two...) the game i won actually went on
forever 'cuz we kept on scratching, and we played the rule where the other two get one ball each back on the table...i think jarin was out of the game 3 or 4 times, but she kept on coming back into the game after tony or i scratched. anyways, that was fun.
sunday, september 7th: iris and i were initially planning on going to see broadway on broadway (they set up a stage in time square and they put on a musical number from each broadway musical, at least, that's how i understood it), which would have been pretty darn cool, but seeing as neither of us got up early enough to get good seats (we would have had to get there by 9:30, and it started at 11:30), we didn't go...i know, i know, i missed out definitely. i'll just hafta go next time. ;p anyways, we went to the morning service at redeemer instead...tim keller is definitely gifted. i loved the message, based on a passage in jeremiah talking about those who trust in men (shrub in the desert) vs. those who trust in God (tree planted by the water)...just a great message. saw janet, hayeon, yula and jack (and yula's sisters), ellen...met some of iris' friends. afterwards, a bunch of us went to lunch in k-town (while there, i thought i saw john cho...and it was him! he was in town on business...), and then we went to battery park to see a free concert...cassandra wilson, a jazz vocalist. she has an amazing voice...gotta get one of her cds. one of iris' friends got there a little early and had a blanket spread out, so we just sat down and listened...really cool. that's one thing - there's so much to do in the city, especially in the summer. and it's just easier to get to places because of the subway (don't need to drive or find parking)...we met up with a few more of iris' church friends at central park, then went to blondie's, a sports bar, to catch the u.s. open men's finals. tony met up with us there, then five of us (tony, iris, iris' two friends, and i) went to cafe lalo (the cafe in you've got mail where meg ryan is waiting to meet tom hanks but she doesn't know it's tom hanks) for dessert.
monday, september 8th: jarin had work and class most of the day, so i just went around...met up with jessica (from kbc in michigan) for lunch. did a little walking around that area, then got back a little early to join up with jarin, eun-jee and yoon-jee...we had tickets to see phantom of the opera (i think that was my fourth time or something), but we got a good deal on really good seats, so it was almost a completely different experience. we got coldstone's afterwards...nice ending to a nice day.
tuesday, september 9th: i went back to soho to try to find something to bring back home...something not tacky or touristy, but still uniquely ny. didn't find anything. in the evening, iris got a bunch of berkeley people together (janet, roy, dennis, john cho, ernesto, and ernesto's two friends for dinner at carmine's. tony also came out, which was kinda funny 'cuz i feel like the crowd was a bit young for him...not that he's old, but
i felt like the crowd was a little young for
me...went for coldstone's again (the same one in the theater district, and i wanted it again!)
wednesday, september 10th: ran a coupla errands in the morning, then had a little time to hang out with jarin before i left. before taking the train out to dc, i got to hang out with yula, which was really nice. saw her new place...it's really, really nice. her building has a full gym (and each of the bikes and treadmills has its own tv!), plus a lounge area with free juice, newpapers, magazines, books, pool tables, dartboards...so nice!! oh, and a movie viewing room you can reserve!! and the apartment itself is really nice...pretty new, with a great view of the river. (i forget which one) i took the amtrak to dc...
the end of my nyc week...