In general, our society. Masyarakat... tak berapa indah untuk kukatakan masyaAllah.
Scene 1: "Aku tak suka la dia buat camtu," kata A kepada B. "Ko tau tak.... bla bla bla..."
Scene 2: "Aku tak suka ko buat camtu," kata Y kepada Z. "Yang ko pegi bla bla bla tu watpe!"
Di mana dalam masyarakat ini, scene 1 slalu berlaku. Ketakpuasan hati antara orang yang mengenali satu sama lain. Benda yang mencetuskan rasa marah, mungkin, contohnya kat orang dikenali sebagai A. Tak puas hati dengan C, tapi tak menyuarakan rasa tak puas hati kat C pun, cuma kat B yang memang kenal dua-dua A ngan C. Puas la berbincang kenapa dan apa dah jadi yang (kononnya) C dah buat. B pun dengarlah. Jika B ini tak reti, dia percaya semua yang A cakap - terus, if it's a bad thing spoken regarding C, then B will hence think from then onwards that C is a bad person. Kalau B ni reti orangnya, dia tak terus je terima. Tengok dulu, betul ke C ni buat camni? But heck no, berapa kerat je orang camni? Secara tak langsung a misunderstanding has turned viral if the non-truth kept on being told to other people. If suddenly people dislike you and you don't know why, this could be the reason.
Then we go to scene 2 - Y and Z. A bad thing has supposedly been done by Z that made Y upset. So Y straight away tells Z, "gedik sengal mangkuk bengong bengap" etc. Oh, cara camni tak bagus sangat I know, manusia mana suka bila kena camtu. Maka Z pun tak suka la, tiba-tiba kena maki. But come to think of it, this is a better situation of where an unsatisfying thing has been let out in the open to the person who did the mistake rather than talking about it to someone else. Tak mencuba untuk cerita pun dengan orang yang buat salah tu. Sukakah anda kalau tiba-tiba orang naik angin dengan anda dan anda tak tahu sebabnya - yang mungkin bermula dengan salah faham je? Tak salah nak citer ngan orang lain, tapi bukan ke orang tu sendiri patut carik solution dengan orang yang buat hal tuh? Kalau dah cuba carik solution tapi orang tu wat hal lagik, then it's a different story. But, if Y can be open to Z yet keeps telling it out to others just because Y is still not satisfied, then I hate Y too.
I prefer a person like Y, go ahead blurt it out to my face with all the foul words, so I will know the truth, rather than A, who can't be open with me but can keep opening up the story to others. Say it to my face.
Then first, find a solution. Is it all you can do is talk?
Can you blame such a person? Maybe not. If you have lived all your life being someone who has never been able to be open to the person involved but would rather tell to your other friends... and you've often believed everything you hear... what can do now lah?
Then I would try to talk to them, to talk to the people involved and solve it. For a healthier heart. Then someday a person might do the same and talk to me too. Mana tau, aku ni manusia biasa, satu hari aku terbuat benda yang sama tanpa sedar silapnya?
This is not an emotional post. Haha, does it seem like one? Because it has happened ever so often that it's such a pathetic, unhealthy society we're living in now. It's a thought. Go on people, spread the word when you hear it. Is it true or was it a misunderstanding?
masya......rakat 13.9.09
post aje lah dey 6.9.09
Walaupun nak diikutkan, aku tak sukakan formaliti, kadang-kadang aku terlibat juga. Ikut mood kot. Atau bilangan orang yang pergi yang aku kenal dan jumlah seluruhnya. Dinner Ausmat pun aku tak pergi, rasanya ramai sangat orang kat majlis tu dan terasa malas. Semalam ada event Circle K, Installation Night untuk ahli-ahli, maka kitorang yang baru masuk sem lepas pun join, since it declares our membership internationally. Circle K is a volunteering club, doing charity especially for needy children, a part of the Kiwanis (K) International which has clubs in all levels of education from school to college. Kelab ni masih baru kat Monash, about 2 years. Aktiviti termasuk guitar, piano, band, singing, dancing performances + dinner at foyer. Dress code malam itu = formal. Terbayang jugak di kepala yang sumer laki akan pakai kot, cool, haha. Maybe it was only Joe Sern who did so, president la katekan. Susah jugak, seminggu lebih agaknya kaum wanita ini bertanya sesama sendiri, "nak pakai ape?" sampaikan aku plak yang pening mendengarnya. Aku memikirkan, tak mungkin aku akan beli baju semata-mata untuknya... duit tengah tahap membimbangkan, dan memang aku takde long skirt or dress whatsoever. You know me. Dah habis dinner (dan habis performance jugak), maka Syamila pun bergerak dengan kamera barunya yang dapat free...
Checkla profile FB Sya untuk tengok gambau... Aquila Adam selaku wakil budak Science untuk kelab ni, telah appointed pulak sebagai in charge of decorations untuk malam ni. Penat gak beberapa hari ni menolong untuk decoration, carik kedai untuk beli barang-barang, siap order plastik dari kedai ubat-ubatan/jamu, tauke kedai ingatkan nak beli ape, nak carik plastik je rupenye?? Plastik untuk jadi goody bag, yang harga murah untuk 170 pieces, nak cari dari area Subang Jaya atau Sunway dalam masa kurang seminggu memang pening gak. In the end we got ourselves a red, Terima Kasih plastic bag like the kind you get for wedding receptions. Seems like a hotel-like thing for the dinner, coz it's formal. Lookie here, an example of the deco we had on the dinner table.
Susah nak cari gelas ni untuk harga murah, lilin pun sebelum beli siap buat eksperimen kat Mydin sama ada dia boleh terapung atau tak (pening orang Mydin), bunga tak sure amik dari mane... First time kot aku pegi Mydin kat sini, haha. Sempat plak amik gamba ngan Doraemon... I like this picture :D
Boleh tahan la malam tuh. Tapi memenatkan gak, dan asyik turun je duit entah mana peginya, teksi kut. Teksi Subang ni memang, duit je nak banyak. The performances were good too, it pretty much lasted till 11 pm I think, when the whole event began at 7 pm. Kitorang datang pun lambat, banyak plak masalah ari tu. Kesian pokok bayam, agaak terabai kebelakangan ni.
This one is just for this specific pot only, with the troublesome leaves. Pot lain ok je actually, entah apa yang tak betulnya yang ni. Sekarang ni dah agak tinggi pokok-pokok neh, lagi tinggi dari yang nampak kat bawah ni. Kejap je dah ade hutan bayam.
Klimaks assignment dan lab report baru turun ari tu, nampaknya akan naik semula tak lame lagi. Although every story is supposed to have one climax point only, no? Not this story of my life, I guess. Oh tidak... tak cukup tidur lagi nampaknya, sampaikan tertidur kat lab and even library. If you have a real Doremon, it'd be nice. At least ada pintu suka hati, boleh pegi terus Monash tanpa perlu jalan kaki.
Looks like I'm gonna have to get to my work.
are you a switchb? 2.9.09
Suddenly I wanna say, I miss my friends. Because I remembered certain things.
haha... the Switchback people. =P
Makan kat Gasoline kat Asian Avenue, Pyramid. Duduk dan bersila, skarang dah lain skit menu bila aku pergi ari tu.
Aku juga ingat, sebelum makan ni aku terjumpa dengan sorang lagi orang yang dah berada kat Gippsland sekarang ngan juga seseorang yang aku jugak kenali... hehehe
Ceit, bukannye diorang bace pon. haha
stranded
I am stranded here. In the past.
How do I get out of here? There's no hole to climb out of. No matter how I keep searching and looking. Only to find more wrongs and do more mistakes. Keep stumbling, but no way out.
I thought hardships always lead to something good. But where is the good here?
