My first real cake!

As many of you know, Brittany asked me to make the cake for her and Rob's wedding. I have never made a wedding cake before and the only experience I have is taking the 4 part fondant and gum paste class that Greg got me for Mother's Day this year. I was excited to try, but also had that kind of nervous panic in my stomach...there is nothing like ruining someone's wedding cake!

There was a lot of work that went into the cake, but I couldn't be more pleased with how it turned out. I literally almost cried when I finally got it all put together!! Cortney baked all 10 cakes (2 for each layer)...almost 8 hours of work, Blaec put in 6 1/2 hours of work helping me with the fondant and I put in almost 13 hours of work. That makes a grand total of 27 1/2 hours!!! I had always heard that it takes 3 days to make a wedding cake and now I know it's true! I don't think I'll ever look at a wedding cake the same way and now I understand the price tags that go along with the cakes! Here she is...




At the end of the reception, Greg and I were cleaning up and were letting the kids run wild during the process. Andrew was running with cousins, Zach finally tuckered out at about 11:30 and Ava was helping herself to another piece of the cake!




On the way home from the wedding, Andrew suggested that I open up a cake business out of our home and charge people $100 to be in my club for a year. He thought I would make a lot of money...I thought it was a precious compliment!!

The wedding party has arrived

Greg's niece Brittany got married this past Saturday and she and Rob (her now husband) asked our kids to be in their wedding. It was a beautiful wedding and the kids had a great time being involved.

Here are the kids all dressed up and ready for the wedding...


Andrew was in charge of pulling the sleigh with the little girls in it...

Zach looking handsome...

Here are all of the kids who were in the wedding - Brittany has always loved kids and working with them and so she wanted her wedding to filled with kids that she loves...

Christmas 2008!

We had a great Christmas morning here at our house (it's only our 2nd Christmas morning at our own home). It was really fun to have the kids get up and be anxious to come down stairs and open presents together. Here are some pictures...

We had the kids all wait upstairs until everything was just right (and until we had the video camera ready)...


Here they are finding their stockings...


Zach was so excited to get a dog webkinz! Andrew got one for his birthday in September and Zach has wanted one ever since. He specifically wanted a dog so that it could be cousins with Andrew's dog...


Ava literally squeeled with delight when she opened up her little dishes set and immediately walked around and tried to get people to "eat" her pretend food...what more could we ask for?


Andrew really wanted some of the mystery chapter books that his teacher reads to the class. There are 26 (one for each letter) and we decided to get him the set. He was very, very excited...


One last photo...here is Ava trying to put Greg's new pants on...


It truly was a Merry Christmas and we feel very blessed for that!

Reminding me of days gone by

When Andrew was about 2 1/2 he started to cut out his daily naps. During this time he went through a "sleeping in strange places" phase. I would come downstairs into the play room and he would be asleep - sometimes right in the middle of what he was doing. I loved it and thought it was so cute.


Those days are long gone, but last night when Greg and I went upstairs to go to bed, there was Andrew. He must have gotten up to go to the bathroom and somehow mistaken the stairs for his bed. He looked quite content, but we carried him to his bed anyway. It really reminded me of when he was little - and I couldn't help but notice just how big he really is now...a bit of nastalga for me on Christmas Eve's Eve!

Mmmm, Cocoa Puff Milk


When Greg and I came down stairs this morning, all of the kids were up and already having breakfast. Chef Andrew had prepared a menu and had gotten the other kids what they wanted. Ava was eating Zach's cocoa puffs when we came into the "restaurant". She made sure she got every last puff and every last drop of milk!

It is better to give than receive


This year Greg's parents asked that we donate to a charity rather than give them a traditional Christmas gift. I have always like the charities that allow a person or family to be able to make a living and then provide for their own families. My extended family has donated for years to an organization called 'Heifer International'. You can go online and buy animals to help families in 3rd world countries. You can purchase a flock of birds for as little as $20 or go big and buy someone's family a water buffalo (or a part of one - you can donate to "help" in the purchase of a larger animal). Check out their website for more information!

www.heifer.org

I also found a website through a newsletter from my MOPS group that sells handmade Ugandan necklaces. The women make the beads and then sell the necklaces as their source of income. Inside the "hope" necklaces are names of children that are HIV+ (the organization where I found the necklaces is an adoption organization for children who are HIV+).

www.fromhivtohome.org

I thought both of these were great charities and great gift ideas...check them out the next time you are stumped for what to give someone!

La La La...


Tonight I went Christmas caroling at an assisted living center with the young women's group from church. I don't think any of us realized how large the facility was and that they were going to be so excited to have us there. We sang for an hour and a half!! We started in the memory center and I was amazed to watch all of the people sing all of the words to each song. I don't know alot about the brain (I know, I opened myself wide up on that one), but even the people who were suffering from severe memory loss still knew all of the words - amazing. Afterwards we walked the halls (escorted by the activities director for a little over an hour). It was really nice - and I wasn't expecting it to be. Many people came out of their rooms to see us and we got quite a little following for about a half an hour - adding about 5 people to our small choir. I told Greg that I had to hold back tears quite a few times. It's always surprizing to me that something so simple can make people so happy. It's been a long time since I have gone caroling somewhere like that (probably 20 years), but I'll actually be looking forward to it next year. It's a good holiday lesson learned.

Icicles on eyelashes



Greg and I went out and shoveled the driveway this morning - we had snow drifts up to 2 1/2 feet deep in some areas even though we only got about a foot of snow. It took us just over an hour and a half to get the driveway and walkway cleared and it was cold!! It is -4 outside today and they are saying the wind chill has it in the
-20's to -30's...cold. Honestly, with the right clothes on, it doesn't really feel much colder than if it was 20 degrees outside...except for on your face! My face was so cold - cold enough that there were icicles on my eyelashes. Enough said.

This is the only evidence of Greg's cake


The cake turned out great and it was rich enough (but not too sweet) to easily feed all 8 couples at Greg's party. Here's the recipe for those of you who wanted it:

Moist and Tender Devil's Food Cake

4 ounces unsweetened chocolate, chopped
1/4 cup Dutch-processed cocoa powder
1 1/4 cups water (boiling)
3/4 cup unbleached all-purpose flour
3/4 cup cake flour
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/4 teaspoon table salt
8 ounces unsalted butter (2 sticks), softened, plus extra for
greasing pans
1 1/2 cups packed dark brown sugar
3 large eggs, room temperature
1/2 cup sour cream
1 teaspoon vanilla extract

Mousse Frosting:
1 pint whipping cream
1/4 cup sugar
1/4 tsp. vanilla
4 ounces of semi-sweet chocolate

Directions:

1. Adjust oven rack to upper- and lower-middle positions; heat oven to 350 degrees. Meanwhile, grease three 8-inch cake pans with butter and line bottom of each pan with parchment paper round. Combine chocolate and cocoa in medium bowl; pour boiling water over and whisk until smooth. Sift together flours, baking soda, and salt onto large sheet parchment or waxed paper; set aside.

2. Place butter in bowl of standing mixer and beat at medium-high
speed until creamy, about 1 minute. Add brown sugar and beat on high until light and fluffy, about 3 minutes. Stop mixer and scrape down bowl with rubber spatula. Increase speed to medium-high and add eggs one at a time, beating 30 seconds after each addition. Reduce speed to medium; add sour cream and vanilla and beat until combined, about 10 seconds. Stop mixer and scrape down bowl. With mixer on low, add about one third of flour mixture, followed by about one half of chocolate mixture. Repeat, ending with flour mixture; beat until just combined, about 15 seconds. Do not overbeat. Remove bowl from mixer; scrape bottom and sides of bowl with rubber spatula and mix gently to thoroughly combine.

3. Divide batter evenly among cake pans, smooth batter to edges of pan with rubber spatula. If baking three 8-inch cakes, place two pans on lower-middle rack and one on upper-middle rack. Bake until skewer inserted in center comes out clean, 20 to 23 minutes for 8-inch cakes. In Utah bake at least 25 minutes. Cool on wire rack 15 to 20 minutes. Run knife around pan perimeter to loosen. Invert cakes onto large plate; peel off parchment, and re-invert onto lightly greased rack. Cool completely before icing.

Mousse Frosting:
Melt chocolate with about 1/3 cup of cream (add a little more cream if too thick). Cool in cold bath. (adding the cream helps the chocolate not turn flaky when you fold it into cold whipped cream) Whip remaining cream, vanilla, and sugar to stiff peaks. Fold in chocolate to taste. Stack and cover cakes with a thick layer of mousse. Chill overnight.

Santa Claus is coming...to church??


As many of you know, a congregation at our church is called a "ward". Wards in an area are bundled together and make up a "stake". When we lived in Utah, our stake was all within 1 1/2 miles (and was probably only that big because part of our stake was down the mountain). In Duluth, we literally live in the largest stake in North America. We have part of Minnesota, Wisconsin, Michigan and Canada in our stake. Just to give a good "mental visual", you can fit the entire state of Utah within the boundaries of our stake. Now, while all of this is somewhat interesting, I just found out 2 days ago (something I found really, really interesting) that the North Pole is in our stake!! I first thought my friend was kidding when she said something like, "well, you know we'd have to drive from here to the North Pole to drive across our whole stake". I kind of laughed and said something like, "Yeah, no kidding". When she realized I thought she was joking, she quickly schooled me on our real boundaries. It's true!!! We go right from Duluth, take a wide bite out of Wisconsin and a little one out of the upper peninsula of Michigan and head north - all the way north!! I started to think of the possibilities of Santa being in our stake. Think of the youth conference you could have at his workshop...the fireside he could give...the actual Santa Claus at the stake primary party...the possibilities are endless! Anyway, just thought it was a fun fact!

It's a little hard to tell where Duluth is on this map, but if you look to the right of the North Pole and head to the 50 degree mark - it is touching Lake Superior. We are right there! Welcome to our Stake boundaries!!!

Let him eat cake


Greg's birthday is on Saturday and he requested a chocolate cake. Ever since then, I have been on the hunt for the best possible chocolate cake recipe. I emailed some of my "foodie" friends and had recipes sent and also searched the web. No normal person would probably ever put as much energy into finding the cake, but we all know that I can get a little obsessed with making something. I finally narrowed the search down to 3 different recipes that all sounded great, but made Greg make the final decision on which recipe to try. He chose a recipe from our friend Bridgette - always a good choice. It has both brown sugar and sour cream in the batter and has a chocolate whipped cream frosting...makes me happy just thinking about it! Hopefully we'll be as happy eating it!

If you have a great recipe...let me know about it...I'll add it to my "must try" chocolate cake list!

Look at what Marisa did!!


Marisa is Greg's niece (and mine by marriage and I totally claim her) and she took the picture from the post below and made this silouette of it. I love it. I think I may have to use it for Christmas cards (next year - this year's go out today)! I thought it was a great new way to see the same picture - thanks Marisa!

We decked the halls!

I love having the house decorated for Christmas - while others are shopping on black Friday, I am decorating! Here are a few pictures of the house and of Zach putting the star on the tree!






My sweet Ava

Ava is getting so big and her personality is really starting to show and be fun. She turned 20 months on Thanksgiving and every day we see changes in her. We love that we can hear her voice now (her vocabulary is booming) and she makes us smile every day.

Ava was completely mesmorized with Ed's harmonica playing this past weekend...

I swear I didn't teach her this, but her Thanksgiving pie eating contest techniques are perfect...

Our cute cowgirl!

Ava decided it was fun to try to kiss people while she had a bucket on her head...here she is with Greg's mom Doris...

Here is Ava while we were decorating...she quickly found some stuffed snow men that are now the "snow babies"...

We love our little miss!

Trying not to hit the button


Andrew gets off the bus a few minutes before 3:00 and walks home. He usually stands outside for a few minutes and talks to one of his friends and then comes inside. Today I was waiting for him so we could head off to the children's museum and it was taking a long time. I looked out the window and couldn't see him and so I decided to walk towards the bus stop in case he was there talking. When I got there, he wasn't there. I started to have that feeling - the rapid heartbeat feeling where you can feel the panic coming, but can still keep it at bay. I wanted to be rational and so the first thing I did was call the school to see if the bus was running late (we were having some flurries) or if Andrew missed the bus. They had me on hold while they contacted the bus driver and so I started to check his friend's houses. One of the moms had seen Andrew get off the bus and start to walk home so I knew he had at least made it that far. I was really struggling to keep the panic from setting in and decided to check back at the house just in case we had somehow crossed paths. He wasn't there and I only knew of one other place to check. While I was walking there, I called Greg and told him what was going on (it had been about 25 minutes at this point)and I had to hold back the tears. While I was still on the phone with Greg I went to the friend's house and found that Andrew was there. My panic immediately turned into wild emotions - I was so relieved, so angry that he hadn't asked before going to his friend's house, so grateful that he was okay...adrenaline induced emotion. When Andrew came to the door I brought him outside and told him that he could never, ever do that again. I was explaining how worried I was and then Andrew said, "but you weren't home". I asked him what he was talking about and he said that he noticed the car was gone and so he went to his friend's house to wait. He hadn't thought about the possibility that the car was in the garage - which it was (he didn't think of it because we just got the garage fixed a week ago and just started parking in it this weekend). It ended up that it was just a little miscommunication, but during those long 25 minutes, it took everything in me not to hit the panic button with full force!

Where have I been?


I have been flipping and flopping about the decision of whether or not to send Zach to kindergarten next year. Since he is a "summer boy" there are lots of conflicting ideas and it seems like everybody has a strong, personal opionion on what is right or wrong. Anyway, one of the things that has been keeping me on the "maybe I won't send him" side is that he doesn't like to write. He won't practice it without a struggle and so he isn't getting much better at it. I have kind of been going with the, "when he's ready - he'll start trying" philosophy (kind of like potty training). This past Thursday we had Zach's first parent/teacher conference with his pre-school teacher. I was curious to see what she would say. Then, all of a sudden, the day before his conference I noticed that he was holding his fork with his left hand and I (for the first time) wondered if he could be left handed. I was really curious to see what his teacher thought the next night. When we went in, I asked her if she had Zach down as right or left handed and she checked and said, "He's down as a lefty". I felt like I had missed a train somewhere along the way. I have been making Zach practice writing with his right hand at home and he is practicing with his left hand at school. He isn't getting much better at either because he is always flipping back and forth and I'm sure it is frustrating for him too. Poor, little, southpaw monkey...I'm giving him a few days off (and have been watching carefully to make sure he really is using his left hand as his dominant hand) and then I think we'll start trying to write again next week - with his left hand this time!

A family classic...



We told the kids that they could choose what we did tonight for a family night. We gave them two choices...either go to the 50th annual Northland parade, eat at Famous Dave's and have ice-cream or pick up food from Wendy's and watch the movie 'Babe' (picnic style on the floor) and have ice-cream. They picked the indoor picnic and movie! I forgot how much I like the movie 'Babe'...and I love that the kids are enjoying it just as much...a Bacon family classic...how fitting!

And I was only trying to be funny when I called it "crack salad"


I just finished watching this season's first episode of "Top Chef" - a show I absolutely love. As the show was finishing and the judges were trying all the plated dishes I started to day-dream about being a judge and how wonderful it would be try all of the different foods and interpretations of the dishes. Then I started to think about the brain. I decided to look up what part of your brain makes you hungry and tells you to eat (the hypothalamus), but the description of what it does didn't fit what I was looking for. What I was wondering is what part of your brain makes you want to close your eyes and take a deep breath when you think about a delicious food (and I am convinced that not everyone has as big of whatever part of the brain that is, but that I have an enormous one, given to me genetically from my mother). Anyway, I came across an article that talked about the 3 different parts of the brain that are triggered during food cravings: the hippocampus, insula, and caudate. It was most interesting because they are the exact same areas that are triggered during drug cravings. I just had to laugh that one of the foods I craved the most in Utah was known by all of my friends as the "crack salad" - not because it has cracked pepper on it like one of my friends thought, but because I keep going back to my restaurant to get my "fix". So, now as I watch "Top Chef" I'll know it's my hippocampus, insula and caudate that are in hyperdrive...along with my hypothalamus!

Time is a funny thing


I know there are really the same amount of hours in every day (barring daylight savings switch days), but today has felt so long! It's only 3:45 and I keep feeling like bed time should be near! We didn't have too much going on this morning - a relaxed Sunday - we had pancakes and gave the kids a bath and got them dressed. A little while later we decided that Ava's cold was too bad to bring her to nursery at church and so we thought I should stay home with her and let her get a good nap. Greg left for a meeting at about noon and Ava fell asleep. The boys wanted to play downstairs and so I started looking through pictures (thinking about our Christmas cards). Soon, Greg came back to get the boys and then, time started to stand still! Usually if I have a few hours where I have time all to myself it flys by, but for whatever reason, today it is stalling! The guys should be home in about another 45 minutes and I can hardly wait...maybe that will get the day moving again!

I see snowflakes (said just like the kid from 6th Sense)


I know there are quite a few areas that have already seen their first snowflakes of the year, but I am looking out the office window and seeing ours. It isn't cold enough to be sticking, but I know it's the start of my first Duluth winter! That makes me a little scared...so...I see snowflakes...

Reduce, Reuse, Recycle





So, as most of you know, I am not necessarily the most environmentally conscience person you know. I mean, I will fill up my recycle trash can like the next person, but I don't have an electric car, use "green" cleaning products, or have any solar panels on my house...however, I was able to costume my kids for Halloween this year by reusing ones we already had! This was great for me - it made for a very low stress year for getting costumes - and the kids were all happy. Andrew wanted to be Superman (a costume we got him for Christmas almost 2 years ago that was very big at the time), Zach wanted to be a dragon (he wore Andrew's dragon costume from last year) and Ava is too little to know and so we put her in a clown costume that Andrew wore when he was 2 (and that Greg always thought was a little feminine). I thought it was very p.c. of me...Watch out Al Gore...

53 Days until Christmas



I was talking to my friend Anna about Halloween and the dilemma of what to do with the candy - let the kids gorge and then toss it - ration it - hide it away - etc. She had a great idea that I knew the kids would love. She takes the candy and sections it off for a countdown to Christmas (kind of like the paper chains you used to make as a kid). Each day the kids get to open then next section and eat a piece of candy. I made mine this morning and Greg and I just hung it. I know that Andrew and Zach will be really excited to see it up! I thought it was a great idea and it should help Zach too - he has been asking me, "how many days until Christmas" for weeks already!